I'm not too creative this year. Frankly, with all I'm dealing with after our accident I'm having a hard time just fixing dinner. I am sending flowers to my mom. She lives 400 miles away and she's a hoarder, so she doesn't need anything else. I know when I go down there in June those (dead) flowers will still be sitting there on the shelf, with about 15 other vases of dead flowers.

When I go down there I'll take her out to Olive Garden or Golden Corral, go with her to her bluegrass band so she can "show me off", go to the doctor with her, clean up one of the bedrooms to make it safe for the children when they come down to visit, and watch some movies with her. And I'll cook for her and put the leftovers in the freezer so i'll know she has at least *some* healthy things to eat. She is a very independent lady so she doens't think she needs any help. You have to be sneaky about it.