hmmm, I used to be a police officer and I am sure I would not have been giving you a warning, and yes I am a straight guy. I very seldom gave people warnings because the people I pulled over were needing a ticket - usually 15 mph over the limit, blowing red lights way late, etc.
Sorry about the ticket, hopefully your DH isn't too mad at you.
I have to tell you Utah, that I got pulled over by a straight woman - she LOL at my story and gave me a warning since I "learned my lesson from the last time"
1. when we first moved to this town, I 'rolled' thru a stop sign, got pulled over and asked who was a policeman in my family (I lied,) my uncle, but I was borrowing my dad's car... got a warning.
2 5 YEARS later. Took ds to a James Bond Movie (what was I thinking?) It was November (why I cant forget ?? I forgot how much sex is in JB movies!! quite the discussion) I was in dh's toyota, not my high minivan. and it was 7ish, dark, drizzly, and dang if all the cars in front of me were braking and driving slow... driving me crazy, I was passin 'em right and left! Finally got to our turn off.. and I came to a complete stop, and proceeded forward, and a nut job slammed brakes in front of me, and I honked and wizzed around that ...
SIRENS AND LIGHTS...
"ma'am do you know why I'm pulling you over?"
me... both hands on wheel, "no, but I know I came to a complete stop"
her "well that's about ALL you did right, i've been following you for 5 miles"

"I'm sorry, no wonder all those cars were braking so much in front of me - I'm so not used to dh's car"
she came back and asked my ds if he learned anything - he said, yes, and gave several rules of road. She said since I learned my lesson from FIVE YEARs ago (how long do warnings stay in their accounts!) she would give me a warning!!
DS always comes to complete stops. and we now know that section of 4lane road is a "speed trap" goes from 45 to 25 yo 50 to 35 .... I may be the only one that wasnt issued a ticket!!