moochers!

LeoGrrrrl1982

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I just need to vent a little bit....
FIrst off, Im sure you all have moochers in your life...to varying degrees. As a person who feels guilty until ive paid back a debt (whether it be a dollar I borrowed for a soda or a meal that a friend footed the bill for) I just dont understand where some people get their nerve!!!
Now I am not a shy individual so I will usually put moochers in their place but my parents are way too nice!
Case in point (and why im posting this on the disneyboards) my family (at the time just my mother, father and me) used to go to disney every year in September, one year my dad invites my uncle and his daughter Shannon. My uncle NEVER offered to help pay for accomodations because "we were already paying for that anyhow, so we could share". He also let my mom and dad foot the bill for them for a pretty expensive chef mickeys meal (where my uncle ordered the catch of the day which was the most expensive thing on the menu) and then had the nerve to turn around and ask my family for our half of counter service burgers and fries! Grrrr it gets me boiling and the fact of the matter is my dads whole side is like this (theyve all got brass you know whats!)
My parents own a timeshare and recently my aunt (who NEVER EVER bothers to call us or send a christmas card or anything) calls and casually mentions shes going to disney. After talking for about 3 minutes she tells my dad that my grandmother mentioned they have a timeshare and she was wondering if they could use it (since my parents are using alternative accom arrangements this year). Then when my mom asks since shes using it if shed pay at least the maitenance fee, my aunt flips saying were selfish people!!!! My grandma actually lectured my dad about this and not being willing to share!

Okay im done venting....if you think im overreacting please bring me back to my senses because I have had about enough of his greedy, overbearing relatives and have a mind to tell my aunt what I think of her and her selfish, self serving ways!
 
Sounds like you're not overreacting at all - I'd say you're right on target. I've got a few low level moochers in my life, but nobody has ever tried to mooch a vacation! Good luck with those people.
 
You're not overreacting at all. I can't believe the thing about asking to use the timeshare and being offended at paying the maintenance fee. Some people. :sad2:
 

Wow. That takes some guts to even ask for that. Your mom offered to let them use it for only half the maintenance fee and your aunt had a cow? What's wrong with her? Does she know how expensive those things are? I thing it was very generous of your mom to only ask for half the maintenance fee. You vent all you need to. We're here for you...
 
I feel you are right on the money. It is hard to see parents getting taken advantage of. I especiall dislike the ones who make not contact during the whole year, until they want something from you!! Thank gets my goat!!
 
I have DVC as well and the on;y people I would CONSIDER sharing with is my Parents and Brother (Both sides) but that would be if i had left over points and i was in a good mood and yes I would at leat expect them to take us out to dinner one night while we were there just to say thank you as I know we would be eating together at some point. although this would not be an issue at least I don not think :scratchin
and it would be me making the offer
if they called me just for that :badpc:
 
Yeah, this is frustrating. Seems like there was very little give and take, let alone proper financial compensation. When vacationing with family, I don't always get uptight about money, but I am very sensitive to the "generosity of spirit". It's awful to feel like you're being mooched from, especially if it's your parents. I do feel for you.

OK and my response to this...
jovidan said:
I'd be steamed if I were you too.

It's amazing. Some people you just can't figure out what planet they are from. If you're read any of previous rants, I have a mother in law who invited herself on my honeymoon and is mad because we're staying longer "than she wants to".

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:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
 
Oh goodness youre a better person then me...if someone invited themselves on my honeymood and made the mistake of thinking they had ANY say in the happenings....theyd get a HUGE piece of my mind!!!
 
maybe you should ask your grandmother - why she feels that your family should surport the other members of her family.....

been in the same situation myself - I say "NO" - then I think about it - and give me something I wasn't going to use anyway.
 











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