As someone who has lived in a restaurant family my whole life, this is always a big thing for our family when we go out. My parents and siblings, who actually run the restaurants, are pretty strict when it comes to tipping and in some cases, I don't feel they leave enough - they have high expectations as they live and breathe this each day. Also though, here in Canada our minimum wages are approx. $8.00/hour (for bartenders it's $6.95/hour), so you add tips to that, and in some cases, the servers make more than my family does when times are lean, and when compared to other jobs, servers do very well, much better than those who have higher waged jobs, but don't get tips (eg. retail).
In regards to our meal costs, they are pretty reasonable in most cases, yet we have very high food, labour and tax costs (we pay some of the highest tax rates in the world), yet this isn't necessarily reflected in soaring meal costs. Customers will only pay so much for their food, period, so I guess I'm wondering why people are so acceptable of Disney paying such low wages, yet charging such high prices for food?
Tiger