Mild Rant: I must be getting old and impatient

MarineVet

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This is just a mild rant- but I am just going to dump it here and hope to forget it. As the title says, I may be just getting old and impatient instead of like so many of the posters here who say these things never bother them.

We got back home yesterday after a quick 4 night stay at WDW; two nights were spent doing the MNSSHP, our first experience with that event. It was also our first time staying at the AoA resort.

Most everything was good, the hotel was beautiful, our room in the Cars area was nicer than expected, and even Hurricane Sandy didn't give us any rain, just some wind.

We slowed down this trip and attended more shows than normal. In total, we must have attended 6 or 7, and the seating was just a mess each and every time. When the doors open to a theater, the ushers ask people to move all the way across the row they enter, but we always saw people stop in the center of the row, and refuse to budge any further. The CMs let in enough people to fill most of the seats, which means that between a third and a half of the rest of the people have to either climb over 25 people or, if possible, walk around and fill in the other side. I've seen this before on a small scale, but it seems like its getting worse each time I go. I'm a plus sized woman, and its frustrating to have those people who plunked down in the middle of the row complain when I have to crawl over them. If they insist on claiming the middle, it would be so much easier to just stand up and allow people to pass on by, wouldn't it?

At Fantasmic, we saw numerous people duck under the white rope which marked off the reserved seating from the dining packages and just sit down and laugh about it. At the Little Mermaid live show, I had a man and his wife verbally attack me because I asked him to remove his hat as I could not see through it. At the Hallo-wishes fireworks, a man crawled up on a concrete bench to stand in front of my husband, pushing him backwards then acting like he did not understand the request that he not do that. A woman sat next to us at the Boo to You parade and proceeded to change her child's poo-dee diaper while balancing the baby on her lap, then left said diaper on the ground. A teenager sat down on my stuff in my chair at the pool - I had a towel and a cover on the chair, he didn't even bother to push them aside first (there were PLENTY of open chairs).

These events did nor ruin or spoil our overall trip, but every day we experienced some new behavior we were just not expecting. Maybe that means I am getting old and intolerant. Or people's behavior overall is declining. We also met a very nice, sweet young couple at HS with their adorable daughter and a number of other pleasant people. But they were the exception this time, sadly.
 
More and more people seem to have attitude of entitlement and think "The rules don't apply to me." It aggravates me on a daily basis when I have to deal with Central Ohio traffic and all the people who feel red lights, stop signs, and turn signals don't apply to them.
 
I hate when people stop in the middle of the seating like that. It's one of my pet peeves. When the cast members tell you to move ALL the way down, just do it! I am a small person and sometimes I am tempted to climb over those people like they're a sand pile in my way. One of these times I will do it. :rolleyes1
 
I have been battling this at home as well. I am on the verge if being banned from our ballpark because I told a mom she needs to make sure he 7 th grader brings his equipment to the ball field since he keeps trying to help himself to my sons. What a wonderfull world of entitlement is evolving
 

You know what really gets me about the people stopping to sit in the middle of the theater? The fact that these same people will push, shove, and mow people down in the pre-show area in order to first to enter the theater!!
 
This is just a mild rant- but I am just going to dump it here and hope to forget it. As the title says, I may be just getting old and impatient instead of like so many of the posters here who say these things never bother them.

We got back home yesterday after a quick 4 night stay at WDW; two nights were spent doing the MNSSHP, our first experience with that event. It was also our first time staying at the AoA resort.

Most everything was good, the hotel was beautiful, our room in the Cars area was nicer than expected, and even Hurricane Sandy didn't give us any rain, just some wind.

We slowed down this trip and attended more shows than normal. In total, we must have attended 6 or 7, and the seating was just a mess each and every time. When the doors open to a theater, the ushers ask people to move all the way across the row they enter, but we always saw people stop in the center of the row, and refuse to budge any further. The CMs let in enough people to fill most of the seats, which means that between a third and a half of the rest of the people have to either climb over 25 people or, if possible, walk around and fill in the other side. I've seen this before on a small scale, but it seems like its getting worse each time I go. I'm a plus sized woman, and its frustrating to have those people who plunked down in the middle of the row complain when I have to crawl over them. If they insist on claiming the middle, it would be so much easier to just stand up and allow people to pass on by, wouldn't it?

At Fantasmic, we saw numerous people duck under the white rope which marked off the reserved seating from the dining packages and just sit down and laugh about it. At the Little Mermaid live show, I had a man and his wife verbally attack me because I asked him to remove his hat as I could not see through it. At the Hallo-wishes fireworks, a man crawled up on a concrete bench to stand in front of my husband, pushing him backwards then acting like he did not understand the request that he not do that. A woman sat next to us at the Boo to You parade and proceeded to change her child's poo-dee diaper while balancing the baby on her lap, then left said diaper on the ground. A teenager sat down on my stuff in my chair at the pool - I had a towel and a cover on the chair, he didn't even bother to push them aside first (there were PLENTY of open chairs).

These events did nor ruin or spoil our overall trip, but every day we experienced some new behavior we were just not expecting. Maybe that means I am getting old and intolerant. Or people's behavior overall is declining. We also met a very nice, sweet young couple at HS with their adorable daughter and a number of other pleasant people. But they were the exception this time, sadly.

I saw some of the same stuff on our trip last week. When we were waiting for the Boo to You parade, and we got there early, I had dd5 in her stroller up at the front of the rope. A mother and her DD came up right as it was starting and she told her DD to get up front (of my stroller) as she was "little". My dd was sitting in her stroller and although her dd was "little" (about 9 yrs old), once in front of my dd's stroller my dd wouldnt be able to see. I looked at this mom with a "no you are not" look and the kid stayed put. I few mins later I noticed she crawled through a couple other adults and proceded to stand right in front of my dd. I said "well, my daughter surely cant see now" and had my dd stand up in her stroller. Another kind lady on the front line saw what happened and moved over a bit so my dd could see again. People truely amaze me. She should have gotten there early if she wanted her child to be up front to see. I am sick of the entitlement people have:furious:
I also saw the people sit wherever they wanted and have others crawl over them. Ugggghhhhh!!!!
 
I don't think it is so much getting older, but the fact, we are amazed by people who don't have the good manners that we have! I can only think they must lead very sad lives to have no consideration for others in this world.

My incident from last year at Thanksgiving still makes me chuckle. I was near the end of the line going into Fantasmic one night (and it was packed!). As I was making my way around the back to empty seats on the far left, I had a gentleman holding his child behind me, using the child as a push-rod to make me walk faster. When I finally had enough, I turned and asked him if he could not use his child to push his way through the crowd.

His reply was, "It's not my fault, the people behind me are pushing us through."

I responded, "that might be a good excuse, if there was ANYONE behind you."

To which he had a dumb look (at being caught being rude and in a lie).

I then moved to the side and said, "Since you are in such a rush, I will let you pass. Just don't trip going down the stairs in your hurry." :faint:
 
You know what really gets me about the people stopping to sit in the middle of the theater? The fact that these same people will push, shove, and mow people down in the pre-show area in order to first to enter the theater!!

Couldn't agree with you more!!! :scratchin
 
You would think we'd all be used to it by now, but that sort of thing ALWAYS catches me by surprise.
 
This is just a mild rant- but I am just going to dump it here and hope to forget it. As the title says, I may be just getting old and impatient instead of like so many of the posters here who say these things never bother them.

We got back home yesterday after a quick 4 night stay at WDW; two nights were spent doing the MNSSHP, our first experience with that event. It was also our first time staying at the AoA resort.

Most everything was good, the hotel was beautiful, our room in the Cars area was nicer than expected, and even Hurricane Sandy didn't give us any rain, just some wind.

We slowed down this trip and attended more shows than normal. In total, we must have attended 6 or 7, and the seating was just a mess each and every time. When the doors open to a theater, the ushers ask people to move all the way across the row they enter, but we always saw people stop in the center of the row, and refuse to budge any further. The CMs let in enough people to fill most of the seats, which means that between a third and a half of the rest of the people have to either climb over 25 people or, if possible, walk around and fill in the other side. I've seen this before on a small scale, but it seems like its getting worse each time I go. I'm a plus sized woman, and its frustrating to have those people who plunked down in the middle of the row complain when I have to crawl over them. If they insist on claiming the middle, it would be so much easier to just stand up and allow people to pass on by, wouldn't it?

At Fantasmic, we saw numerous people duck under the white rope which marked off the reserved seating from the dining packages and just sit down and laugh about it. At the Little Mermaid live show, I had a man and his wife verbally attack me because I asked him to remove his hat as I could not see through it. At the Hallo-wishes fireworks, a man crawled up on a concrete bench to stand in front of my husband, pushing him backwards then acting like he did not understand the request that he not do that. A woman sat next to us at the Boo to You parade and proceeded to change her child's poo-dee diaper while balancing the baby on her lap, then left said diaper on the ground. A teenager sat down on my stuff in my chair at the pool - I had a towel and a cover on the chair, he didn't even bother to push them aside first (there were PLENTY of open chairs).

These events did nor ruin or spoil our overall trip, but every day we experienced some new behavior we were just not expecting. Maybe that means I am getting old and intolerant. Or people's behavior overall is declining. We also met a very nice, sweet young couple at HS with their adorable daughter and a number of other pleasant people. But they were the exception this time, sadly.

I can say you aren't old because we had many complaints after our last trip also. I had a similar experience at MNSSHP with some one standing in front kind of thing, but this guy picked his kid up and put him on his shoulders, standing DEAD IN THE MIDDLE of the castle watching the little dance party. Everyone else was sitting on the ground in front of us, minus this moron!

Just I wonder some times about people are thinking when they take the actions they do.
 
Well, if you're gettng old and impatient, I'm right there with you. The theatre seating is always an issue and I always feel so bad for the poor CMs who try so hard to remain polite and nice as they announce for the millionth time for people to move their sorry selves down the row.

People's manners and general courtesy is lacking everywhere, not just Disney though. Rude people teach their kids to be rude and it's a viscious cycle. I try very hard to teach my DS4 common courtesy and he's not pushy, by nature, so the poor kid is constantly shuffled to back of lines because he'll stand and wait for his turn while 90% of the other kids pass him by. It is so very tempting to teach him to do the same, but I don't want to give up that easily, as clearly many other parents have. So instead, I do try to teach him to stay alert and make sure he keeps minimal space available for some other kid to waltz in in front of him.
 
You know what really gets me about the people stopping to sit in the middle of the theater? The fact that these same people will push, shove, and mow people down in the pre-show area in order to first to enter the theater!!

EXACTLY!!!!!

We noticed an increase in rudeness during our last trip too :confused3. Seems like I keep reading about how attendance is growing every year so I guess that it stands to reason that the % of jerks would increase as well. Sorry you had to deal with so much of it!
 
I hate when people stop in the middle of the seating like that. It's one of my pet peeves. When the cast members tell you to move ALL the way down, just do it! I am a small person and sometimes I am tempted to climb over those people like they're a sand pile in my way. One of these times I will do it. :rolleyes1

I have a huge problem with this! If you ask them to move down they look at you like you have two heads!! I have climbed over people... and I am I not too polite or quiet about it either... if they stop because they THINK they are special I will climb over them... if I step on their toe or if my child (who I am carrying) kicks them in the head, they better not say anything because I will give them a death stare back! :rotfl2:

I'm not quiet when it comes to parades either... if someones child steps in front of mine who was there first, expect me to say something. I'll ask them to move politely the first time... but if they don't I will be more rude the next time I ask
 
This type of behavior frustrates me every single time we're at Disney (and when I see similar crap in "real life"). Like you said, it certainly doesn't ruin our trip but it upsets me when I see it.

(I may make snarky comments just loud enough for those rude guests to hear-- does that make me just as bad as them?! ;) )
 
You know what really gets me about the people stopping to sit in the middle of the theater? The fact that these same people will push, shove, and mow people down in the pre-show area in order to first to enter the theater!!

Oh my God, this is my biggest peeve and then it's usually those who do not speak a word of English too. They say it in multiple languages too and they still do not budge. Last Christmas there was a Spanish speaking group in the row in front of us for one and they argued with the CM about moving down and kept saying no to them. We figured out finally not to rush in the theaters so we don't have this problem.
 
I saw some of the same stuff on our trip last week. When we were waiting for the Boo to You parade, and we got there early, I had dd5 in her stroller up at the front of the rope. A mother and her DD came up right as it was starting and she told her DD to get up front (of my stroller) as she was "little". My dd was sitting in her stroller and although her dd was "little" (about 9 yrs old), once in front of my dd's stroller my dd wouldnt be able to see. I looked at this mom with a "no you are not" look and the kid stayed put. I few mins later I noticed she crawled through a couple other adults and proceded to stand right in front of my dd. I said "well, my daughter surely cant see now" and had my dd stand up in her stroller. Another kind lady on the front line saw what happened and moved over a bit so my dd could see again. People truely amaze me. She should have gotten there early if she wanted her child to be up front to see. I am sick of the entitlement people have:furious:
I also saw the people sit wherever they wanted and have others crawl over them. Ugggghhhhh!!!!

The parades are insane. We stake out our spot for MSEP 2 hours early (right in front of Casey's so we can just stay in the same spot for Wishes). The number of people that thought they could just jump in front of us 5 minutes before MSEP (and even while it was going on) started was INSANE. And then people would send their kids in to try and push in front of us. One even tried to sit in DD's stroller! I felt like we were at a concert with the way we had to protect our spot.

ETA: I do not feel bad at all when I tell kids to get out of my child's way. Sorry, but we got this spot so my child could see not so someone else's child could jump in at the last minute.
 
mommy2jack said:
I have a huge problem with this! If you ask them to move down they look at you like you have two heads!! I have climbed over people... and I am I not too polite or quiet about it either... if they stop because they THINK they are special I will climb over them... if I step on their toe or if my child (who I am carrying) kicks them in the head, they better not say anything because I will give them a death stare back! :rotfl2:

I'm not quiet when it comes to parades either... if someones child steps in front of mine who was there first, expect me to say something. I'll ask them to move politely the first time... but if they don't I will be more rude the next time I ask

My DH always says "we'll go down this aisle since the people in that aisle are too stupid to move all the way down. They speak English yet they don't understand it", lol.

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I try to remind myself that the rude people won't have as nice a vacation as the rest of us, anyway, since they tend to be magnets for conflict and unhappiness. And stubbed toes when I'm climbing over 'em in the theatre. ;)

Our very first trip to Disney, back in 2005, we came across a gentleman in the Magic Kingdom parking lot who felt entitled to park where ever he liked. He ignored the CM trying to direct him to the correct spot, and by the time we'd climbed our of our car and were walking to the tram, he was kicking (:scared:) the CM's bicycle and screaming about racism! Meanwhile his sari-clad wife and small children are just standing there, staring.

All I could think was, "How humiliating it must be to be married to a man like that," and "What a rotten start to the day for those poor kids." I felt bad for that guy's family. I wonder if they ever have any enjoyable vacations?

And on next-to-last trip, a very rude woman and her entourage shoved their way in front of me to get the centre front seats in Ellen's Energy Adventure. I was left standing with no place to sit. But then I heard someone behind me say, "I can't believe they just did that!" And the family in the front of the left hand trolley scooted over and told me to sit beside them. They were the nicest people! :goodvibes

Besides, it all worked out, as the middle set of seats actually goes LAST in Ellen's Energy Adventure.

I may have smirked at that woman, every time we passed her. :lmao:
 
I don't think it is old age. I am irritated just reading about this stuff and I wasn't even there to witness it first hand. I am glad you enjoyed your trip despite the rude people.
 
Or people's behavior overall is declining.

This :thumbsup2

It's not just at Disney but pretty much everywhere these days. Standards as a whole has gone down in society allowing people to behave differently. It's all about "Me" now-a-days. Sad, really, and almost impossible to avoid.
 















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