Michelle Duggar pregnant with #19!!!

I find it interesting that some people are opposed to the Duggars having so many children due to issues concerning paying for all of their children’s educations. Many parents are capable of paying for their children’s educations, but do not. My parents for example, make over a six figure annual income...and they still did not feel that they were obligated to pay my way through school. A college education is a privilege...not a right. Not paying for college does not make you a bad parent.
I just want to know how they plan to pay for all of them to go to college. That's a lot of tuition dollars!
 
Exactly. What a rude, ignorant woman she is!

It is like announcing your engagment at somebody's wedding:rolleyes: "

It's the "NOBODY will get more attention than me" mentality.

Seriously? Where should she have hidden meanwhile? My body would not have allowed me to hide my second child for 4 or 5 months, much less after tons of children! (Well, lets be honest here - I showed way before then with my first too.)
 
I think it is sad and pathetic that these 'parents' are robbing their eldest of any sort of freedom, creating more 'buddies' for them to parent. Mrs.Duggar really needs her tubes tied.

The thought that I could some day live in a country where other people determine what my family size should be taking into consideration I could afford them scares me.

Thank God I live in America!:thumbsup2
 
If each of her descendants believed in the whole quiver full thing and had 19 children, she would have 130,321 great great grandchildren and nearly 2.5 million great, great, great grandchildren.

Now imagine if everybody utilized the "right" to have as many kids as their uterus can manage, how long would it be before the earth became degraded beyond use? The sad thing is that the Duggars would love for their kids to believe in their screwy religion and have that many babies. It's pathetic.

We may have a legal right, but we do not have a moral or spiritual right. The earth is already stretched more than Duggar's uterus, we don't need people going around having a couple dozen children just because they can. No good comes of it, none at all. The kids have to raise their siblings. It's not a family, it's an institution. What is the point?????

I think it all evens out and I dont fear that we will run out of resources and/or "room". There are many people who dont have children, whether its because they cant or because they dont want to.
 

Not everyone shares the same morals and spirituality. :goodvibes

Ok, then they have no ethical right. What they do affects everybody. Many who defend them say that it's nobody's business as long as they can take care of their kids. But financially tending to their children does nothing to prevent the massive footprint their breeding leaves on the planet.

I think it all evens out and I dont fear that we will run out of resources and/or "room". There are many people who dont have children, whether its because they cant or because they dont want to.

I don't think it evens itself out. In 1927, there were 2 billion people on the planet. It is projected that in 2025 there will be 8 billion! That means that in all of human history up to 1927, we only increased by 2 billion, but in the hundred years since we have become industrialized, we have increased by six billion. We can't keep doing that! People can't keep breeding like they did when many children died from disease before they became old enough to reproduce themselves. Now that we have much better knowledge in the field of medicine and people are living much, much longer and the infant mortality rate is much lower, people have to stop having that many babies. As the underdeveloped countries begin to develop and better medical care reaches all corners of the globe, the population could explode again. It's wonderful that people are living longer and healthier lives, but with this comes a responsibility to our fellow man as well as to our planet and the other creatures that live on it.

Believe it or not, I'm no environmental nutjob. But how can one not be aware of the massive population and how it affects the planet? We are tearing down forests and destroying the habitat of other animals causing extinctions and upsetting the fragile balance of nature, heating up the globe, and using up resources. How can anybody not see that our huge numbers have a negative affect on the planet? If we have a negative impact now, what do you think it will be like when your great grandchildren are raising their kids on a planet with 12-14 billion people?

I cannot cheer on people like the Duggars. I agree with people who say it's abusive to pump out babies and turn them over to their siblings. But I feel even more strongly about how their quiver full beliefs affect me, my daughter, and any children she raises (I say "raise" because she plans to adopt older children who can't find forever homes). I don't pass judgment on people with bigger families, but come on....nineteen? That's taking things a bit far. At some point, we have to start thinking ahead and try to imagine how future generations are going to deal with the population issues.

I do not advocate legalizing the number of children a family can have, but I really HATE seeing a family like the Duggars get so much positive attention for breeding. They go on TV and show the world the fun parts of having 19 children, but what is hidden from the cameras is all the hard work, the pain, the frustration, the tears and resentment. It's not all fun and games, but they make it appear that way. This in turn glamorizes having gigantic families and that is just not a good idea! The last thing we need is thousands of little girls getting it into their heads that they want to live like the Duggars.
 
My biggest concern is Michelle's health; having this many children takes a toll on the body. But I hope she has a healthy baby and everything turns out fine. It's going to be a little weird for Anna & Josh's daughter to have an aunt or uncle younger than her, though!

My dads aunt and uncle are 1 and 5yrs young than him, he had playmates his age and he didnt think its weird.:confused3
 
hopefully her uterus will fall out with this childbirth and put an end to this madness!
 
If each of her descendants believed in the whole quiver full thing and had 19 children, she would have 130,321 great great grandchildren and nearly 2.5 million great, great, great grandchildren.

Now imagine if everybody utilized the "right" to have as many kids as their uterus can manage, how long would it be before the earth became degraded beyond use? The sad thing is that the Duggars would love for their kids to believe in their screwy religion and have that many babies. It's pathetic.

We may have a legal right, but we do not have a moral or spiritual right. The earth is already stretched more than Duggar's uterus, we don't need people going around having a couple dozen children just because they can. No good comes of it, none at all. The kids have to raise their siblings. It's not a family, it's an institution. What is the point?????


Then we should follow China's belief about 1 child per house hold????:mad:
give us your address and everybody who wants a child can sent the applicantion to your house for approval!:sad2:
 
Concerning college, I have read that the Duggars will not financially support their children's college education because they do not encourage it, especially for the girls of the family. Now I can't confirm that this is true, I'm just putting it out there in caser anyone who does know can comment on the truth of it.
 
Concerning college, I have read that the Duggars will not financially support their children's college education because they do not encourage it, especially for the girls of the family. Now I can't confirm that this is true, I'm just putting it out there in caser anyone who does know can comment on the truth of it.

I don't know their views on this, but I don't really think college costs would be a major concern if I had that many children. There are so many dependents and I don't believe they're outrageously wealthy, so the parents' expected contribution would likely be very little.

There are only 4 kids in my family and I went to a $40K+ college for next to nothing. My senior year there were 3 of us in college, so the EFC was even less than when I started.
 
i figured thats what she was going to tell Meridith...........i was like are you kidding me.....come on.that is soooooooooo ridiculous....i know let them enjoy all the other ones, esp. the 10 month old. yeck .....i would not want to be pregnant with my daughter or my daughter in law. Bizarre........ to weird...
 
I don't know their views on this, but I don't really think college costs would be a major concern if I had that many children. There are so many dependents and I don't believe they're outrageously wealthy, so the parents' expected contribution would likely be very little.

There are only 4 kids in my family and I went to a $40K+ college for next to nothing. My senior year there were 3 of us in college, so the EFC was even less than when I started.

I just did some reading about the quiverfull religion and they do in fact believe that girls forgo college in order to get married early and have children. And here we have people actually saying these people are good parents. Its one thing to not pay for your child's education but its a whole other thing to not encourage one for your daughters to ensure she lives a life of servitude to the males in her life. My hope is that the Duggars don't in fact abide by this, but I'm guessing thats not the case and its pretty sickening.
 
I support their right to choose to have as many children as they want (and can support.) That being said, I don't think I would want to have 19 children....two at the most.
 
Then we should follow China's belief about 1 child per house hold????:mad:
give us your address and everybody who wants a child can sent the applicantion to your house for approval!:sad2:

Wow! Such venom. Why put words into my mouth just because you disagree with my stance on this? You're making assumptions about my opinions that are completely wrong. And in your need to be indignant and angry at me, did you bother to read the paragraphs where I wrote:

I don't pass judgment on people with bigger families, but come on....nineteen?

and then...

I do not advocate legalizing the number of children a family can have, but I really HATE seeing a family like the Duggars get so much positive attention for breeding.

Ooops! :rotfl:
 
Seriously? Where should she have hidden meanwhile?

Um--I dunno. Maybe she could have hidden from the NBC camera crew until October.

Sheesh! Did she really have to announce it on The Today Show:headache:

GIVE ME ATTENTION!!!!!:rolleyes1
 
I just did some reading about the quiverfull religion and they do in fact believe that girls forgo college in order to get married early and have children. And here we have people actually saying these people are good parents. Its one thing to not pay for your child's education but its a whole other thing to not encourage one for your daughters to ensure she lives a life of servitude to the males in her life. My hope is that the Duggars don't in fact abide by this, but I'm guessing thats not the case and its pretty sickening.


I agree.

Girls=Baby Machine.

Twisted. Cult like. Sad.
 
geezus ... and before any jump on me saying it's their choice, I would have no problem if they let their kids be kids not surrogate parents!
 
Just thought I would point out that Josh's wife Anna did graduate from college with a B.A. in Christian Education. Her family like the Duggars, are strict Christian fundamentalists...and yet she did obtain higher education. :teacher:
 
Love the Duggars so while I'm a little taken a back by this announcement I'm not that surprised. I wish Michelle a happy, healthy pregnancy with a happy and healthy baby to follow in March 2010.

It surprises me how so many are throwing around rumors or things they think they know about this family when they themselves have neither read their books or watched their show. However, let them get a piece of info from the lady next door who read half an article or saw Jon & Kate + Octomom and they think they've got it all figured out. Folks can be so judgemental and blame their religion when their religion has little or nothing to do with their personal decisions as to how many children they will have.

God Bless you Michelle, God Bless you Anna(DIL who is due 10/18/09) and God Bless the Duggars!

T.

I am quite certain that Michelle just had number 19 for attention, and I've watched every show they have ever had and even googled them and their beliefs. So I know that their religion has pretty much everything to do with why they had so many children.

I don't know how everyone can be so happy that she is pregnant again when the doctors told her about 3 or 4 pregnancies ago that it WASN'T SAFE. I think the children would rather have their mother alive than another sibling. :confused3

Exactly. What a rude, ignorant woman she is!

It is like announcing your engagment at somebody's wedding:rolleyes: "

It's the "NOBODY will get more attention than me" mentality.

I totally agree...if she didn't just want the attention she wouldn't have announced it on morning tv for the whole world to see...
 













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