Miami is a Horrible/Sad place to live

Hmmm, maybe you'd like parts of NC. Cheaper housing than Miami (maybe, I don't know for sure), seasons, but no real severe winters, and close enough to the mountains or the ocean for a weekend trip, depending on where in NC. The nice thing about living in one area is that if you don't like it you can move. When I was your age (actually, from about 21-27yo) I would get bored in one area after about 2 years and want to move. That changed once I started having kids, but I liked living in different parts of the country.
 
FierceAXboi said:
Yeah thats the place......Well the exact location of the place in unknown to me right now. Point I was trying to make is that homes in other parts of the U.S. are much nicer and less expensive then here in Miami. Now yes I know places like NY or NJ homes are expensive. Lets just not turn this into a home cost thread. Lets just say you get more for your buck in other parts of the country then in miami

I wasn't trying to turn the thread into a home cost thread. :) You just mentioned Oregon and because I live here, it caught my attention. Since you want to move and housing cost is a big part of the decision in moving, I just thought I'd let you know that home prices are not low.
 
I was laughing over the perfect roads. I've yet to find a place where road construction isn't always going on. :confused3
 

FierceAXboi said:
I can move to Orlando and be perfectly ok. I go tehre all the time and the oly bad traffic is on the I4 near Lake Buena Vista. I dont mind snow I can move to Vermont/New Hampshire/Virginia the list goes on and on. I dont need luck just saying how I feel

The only bad traffic in Orlando is at I 4 near 535?? Hmmm. Try sitting on John Yountg for 45 minutes every morning no matter what time you leave the house. How about Orange Blossom Trail (OBT)? They have been widening that road for more than 10 years in one section or another. You could read an entire novel on your way down that road (please DON'T DO THIS! You can't believe how many people I see with their nose in a tour book while driving around Orlando) :confused3

Sand Lake near the Florida Mall. Now there's a real picnic. How about Colonial at 5 pm? I4 headed up into Seminole County at 4 pm M-Fri? Or I4 FROM Seminole county headed South M-Fri at 8 am? Traffic all over Orlando is a nightmare.

As far as tolls go, Massachusetts and New York hands down have FL beat there. Even Oklahoma has a toll road. (Will Rogers Turnpike)

Snow? You have thin blood living in Florida. I know I do! You will tense up like a board when you hit that frigid air and your spine will throb, your back will ache and your hands will tingle for days when you walk outside in that. That is why there are soooo many New Yorkers from West Palm Beach to Miami. They got sick of the weather and the taxes, the high home costs on Long Island, Manhattan,or any of the boroughs they are from.
Miami does have it's share of rude people as most are transplants from somewhere else :rotfl2: :teeth:

In case you can't tell, I have lived ALL over this country and with the exception of Texas, I wouldn't want to live anywhere else.
 
I don't know about living there, but we passed through there when I was in fort lauderdale. It was beautiful, but the people were... interesting....
 
You probably wouldn't like Buffalo either, we do have cheaper housing than other areas, but taxes will kill you!

Car insurance? 2 cars, both 2002, 430.00 every 3 months. (2 adult drivers both over 40).

Tolls, you have to pay a toll to cross over bridges, pay a toll to drive into downtown Buffalo, drive the NY Statet thruway, pay a toll.

Right now our county is in a budget crisis, they are clsoing libraries, parks, and laying off lots and lots of people. Not a very great place to be right now.
 
Zurealsoon said:
I was laughing over the perfect roads.

I moved here from Missouri in April to Dallas area. Let me tell you I have never known such perfect roads. I realized it was because of the weather the roads are good. No snow, a bit of ice, but nothing big. They don't salt the roads and tear them up.
In the north there are potholes all over. Roads are awful.

As far as seasons, and living where it snows? Yes it is pretty, I am not going to lie. Although I am 40 and could care less about it now.

I have found the Dallas area to be summer & fall. Works for me.
Traffic however is awful here. I thought NYC & CA was bad! HA!!! People are moving here by the droves from all over the globe, including NYC and CA.

Perhaps you would like Iowa??? My dh's family is from Iowa. Quiet, inexpensive, no construction that I have seen.
 
Zurealsoon said:
I was laughing over the perfect roads. I've yet to find a place where road construction isn't always going on. :confused3

And actually one of my complaints about where we live is that they don't do road construction until after the roads are already so congested with new growth. I suppose they are waiting for the tax $, but it would be so much nicer if the roads were built before or at least at the same time as all the houses and other growth.
 
You know, the only problem with moving to another state is you have to take yourself with you :confused3 I think you can be happy wherever you set your mind to it. (On the other hand, we lived for 1 year in Miami and I totally get your complaints. Consider Georgia!)
 
Dan Murphy said:
I am sure once the car is paid off, Rob, and you are able to move, all will be well. I would not look into the Chicago area however, as I don't think you will like it here either, based on the Miami problems mentioned. No hurricanes, but do have tornadoes, some floods, blizzards and sub-zero right now. The other items, we are a lot worse than there. Until then, as you say, Wishing You Magic.
When I worked in Chicago the joke was that there were only two seasons, Winter and Construction.

ford family
 
Honu said:
Okie dokie. Sorry FierceAXboi, but your post on that thread is disrespectful and self-absorbed. Your entitled to your opinion, but that was not the right place to express it.
You got that right! :rotfl: As far as Miami, yea it isn't great but WHERE is great to live these days? :confused3 Our crime rate is pretty high, as in 'other' places, but there is crime everywhere. As far as your car holding you back, why can't you sell it? As far as traffic, get up a little earlier and you just might BEAT it! ;) I love the Orlando area, and would love to live there, but, financially I can't afford it right now, but its something to look forward too. Oh, and I have LIVED in Miami for 47 years!! BOY has it changed! ;)
 
FierceAXboi said:
Isnt it nice to live in a beautiful community where the seasons change. Where when springs comes flowers bloom and when its halloween the leaves turn. Then the whole neighborhood goes out trick or treating. When for Christmas you get snow and go decorate your homes with neighbors. Where you can go for a trip into town and not have to worry about streets that are perfectly fine being fixed. Where you might have to worry about a occasional snow storm but nothing like a 110mph hurricane that will leave you without power for weeks. A place where your insurace and taxes are a normal and not astronomical.

The grass is always greener, LOL! We moved from MA to FL last year, and I'd NEVER move back. Let me address your comments above one by one:

<Isnt it nice to live in a beautiful community where the seasons change. Where when springs comes flowers bloom and when its halloween the leaves turn.>

Yes, it is. For like a week. That's how long those things last. In between, you have "mud season" in the "spring" that lasts for a month or more. Don't know what "mud season" is? Seriously, be glad. Those leaves sure do look pretty on the trees in the fall...again, for like a week. Like raking? I hope so! Oh, and once you're raking, the trees are bare for 9 months and the sky is gray for just about as long. Your friends don't come outside because it gets dark at 4:30 in the afternoon. Your spouse sits on the couch all weekend, staring at the walls 9 months a year. Depressing much?

<Then the whole neighborhood goes out trick or treating.>

My old neighborhood did, but a lot of times the kids had to wear their winter gear OVER their costumes. What fun :rolleyes:

<When for Christmas you get snow and go decorate your homes with neighbors.>

Huh :confused3 IF anyone decorates, those decorations usually stay up past Easter. Who the heck wants to put up and take down decorations in the freezing cold? I've never seen so many decorations as I have in FL. People in MA don't decorate this way. It's way too cold to do that. FWIW, my old neighbors had icicle lights on their house...YEAR ROUND. That's not uncommon in New England :rotfl:

<Where you can go for a trip into town and not have to worry about streets that are perfectly fine being fixed.>

Sorry, but this happens everywhere. My old town was too broke to afford school buses for the kids, but yet they spent 3 years adding decorative pavers to the main street. Yeah, that was fun...and economical...NOT!!

<Where you might have to worry about a occasional snow storm but nothing like a 110mph hurricane that will leave you without power for weeks.>

Occasional? Only if you consider "occasional" to be weekly for 9 months a year. Snow and ice storms can cause long power outages too. Here is the difference. After a hurricaine, you will be hot and sweaty without power. It will be annoying and uncomfortable. After an ice storm, you will DIE without heat. We had a generator when we lived in MA. We didn't want to freeze to death in our own home.

<A place where your insurace and taxes are a normal and not astronomical.>

Again, this is everywhere. You have high insurance in FL. Well, other states have high INCOME TAXES along with high insurance and high property taxes. Car insurance in FL is low compared to other states. Yes, it's somewhat higher in Miami, but still not even close to what many people pay in NY, NJ, MA, etc. MA used to take 5.95% of our household income BEFORE we paid out our property taxes. Our homeowners was definitely lower there, but that didn't put a dent in how much extra we paid in taxes. Also, we have no gas bill for our house here in FL. That's a nice $400/month extra in our pocket!

Trust me, there are pros and cons to living everywhere. Have you given any thought to staying in FL but moving up the coast a bit? Our area is nowhere near as $$$ as South FL, and the quality-of-life here is great. You can always visit a cold climate for the "seasons". Either that, or try living in one for a year and see if it's really what you think it will be. Honestly, though, there is a reason that so many people are leaving those climates and flocking south...
 
I live in New Orleans.

Ya wanna trade places?

And before you say that I don't know what Miami's like, I do. I used to live there.
 
I went to South FL where I used to live this past weekend. Don't miss it at all. Wouldn't want to live down in Miami either. I love it up here.
 
If you don't like Miami please move. I've lived here almost 31 years and while I might leave Miami in the future I would never move out of Florida. I like Miami and the neighborhood I live in. MY dh works about 5 miles from the house and I substitute 7 blocks from my house. Traffic is a pain but really it is a pain just about anywhere now days.
 
Hasn't anyone ever lived in a place that they just plain didn't like? I know that I have.

It sounds to me like the OP is just venting. Plus he's young and maybe not very tactful. :)
 
I missed the part where the OP mentions why they are being held hostage in Miami. Can someone explain?
 
I lived in the Miami/Ft Lauderdale area for my childhood and teenage years, then moved to Tallahassee for college ( OP Tally might be a place you'd like...cheaper housing, some seasons. However, very little to do.) Anyway...hated Tallahassee for a long time, got married and finally got 'comfortable' with it...but always wanted to move back down here...now we have...after 8 years in Tally, and now back to S FL, I want to go back there!

And I have realized something...whenever I do move back to Tally, I will miss South Florida again! The grass is always greener, right? Just try to enjoy what you have, there are plusses and minuses everywhere.
 
DarkSideMoon said:
I don't know about living there, but we passed through there when I was in fort lauderdale. It was beautiful, but the people were... interesting....

Okay...call me clueless, but what does this mean?

I grew up between Miami and Lauderdale, and the people didn't seem more or less "interesting" than anywhere else.

Except for the man in the fairy costume that paid parking meters that had run out of time so they didn't get tickets--I loved him!

And I love Miami, for what it's worth. I'll be back in 8 days! :sunny:
 


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