DW and I do a fair bit of Ebaying and I have a US Premier Business account w/ Paypal.
As such, I can setup donation buttons and I just created one for this.
I can let people use it, if a) I have permission to do so and b) people trust me to send the final amount to the family. What I'm envisioning is having donations made to the account, then I would just write a check off of it and mail it over (or I suppose I could get a money order too).
I've never done this before, but it looks extremely easy. I will post the code here and you should be able to click on the "MAKE DONATION" button.
Again, I don't know if this should be *official* yet. I was just messing around with paypal to see if I could get it to work. I'm more than happy to do this for everyone here, but whatever the masses agree upon.
Let's see if this works:
*edit* - Ok - it didnt work. I can host the donation button on my site, but before I post the address, I would like a "nod" from a few of you to go ahead and do this. I don't want to presume that I am the one to take charge of this without everyone else's blessings.