Me and my GF of 5 years are breaking up and it sucks.

[BarbieGal457]

I'm so sorry to hear. So far I've only had 2 relationships but I understand how sad you are. I think that even though it hurts you're doing the right thing, instead of dragging it out and making it hurt even more by fighting more, and then inevitably breaking up in the future. I know it hurts so much but there is life beyond it, even though it doesn't seem that way right now. As PPs have said, I think God has a plan for everyone and that all things happen for a reason even though you might not know what it is right now (my personal view). Maybe something bigger and better is just around the corner! Time definitely helps, and I think the healing process isn't something that can be rushed, but time helps a lot.

 

[astrodrummergirl]

Sorry to hear it man. Although, I can't really speak from experience, I can't seem to get myself into relationships to start with.

 

[IWISHFORDISNEY]

Honestly yes it is hard but good for you to have enough sense to realize that it would be a mistake to stay together. I hope it goes as smoothly as it possibly can. ((HUGS))

 

[CAJUNWDWFAN]

Had to vent a little , sorry all. I have lived with her for 4 years, it is the longest relationship i have had and this is really hard. I love her, but we are just not meant for each other i suppose. we fight SO much and it hurts. me and her fight more in one month than i remember my parents fighting in my whole life. She is heartbroken, as am I, she wants to make it work, but we have tried over and over again, and nothing works, 2-4 weeks later were in another huge fight. and it gets mean, i will not lie i say mean hurtfull things in fights, and she does the same. Its just not healthy for either of us. She told me "thanks for wasting the last 5 years of my life, i though we were gonna get married" i choose to not see it as a waste, it was a life experience that had many many good times, and some bad ones also. Its with her i took my first WDW trip, and my first Cruise. I feel so bad for her, we are still living together, this just happend 2 days ago, but she is planning on staying with her mom for a little while (her mom also lives in the same apartment complex as us, but on the other side, this should be interesting). I hope im doing the right thing, but i just cant take the hurtfull arguments anymore. I can tell we are both gonna have a rough couple of weeks ahead of us. I feel so alone out here also, i moved out to phoenix with her 4 years ago, i have no family and very few friends here. I would like to move back home to Orange County CA, but we have 5 months on a lease left. All i know is breaking up SUCKS. not just for the person getting dumped, it hurts for the other party too. I truly do love her and wish her only the best in life, i just know that i am not the person that can make her the happiest, and she deserves that, even if she doesnt know it right now. thanks again all...

Keep your head up, it will all work out for the best. I broke up with my girlfriend/fiance of 11 years two years ago. I have since met the true love of my life and we are planning on getting married this April then honeymoon at WDW. The world works in strange ways.

 

[noladave]

Hey bud (funkehouse), how you doing???

It's been a little while, just checking in, and hope all is well.

 

[mjperry]

Funkhouse-

I'm sure there are a few people on here that have been where you are now.
I had a GF for Four years too and loved her and still care about her, however she loved drama and I hate drama. So you see where im going. We had some really fun times together but also some bad times. Our trouble seemed to start with her getting up set at other friends and Family then it would spill over to us. We ever took a trip to WDW in Aug. of 2006 and when we landed at MCO and got on ME she was not even in a good mood, it was so bad when we arrived to Hollywood Studios ( them MGM) the guard at the gate told her to smile you are in the happiest place on earth. While I would never take back those four years I see now that it would never work and that I felt like I could not joke around her. Sometimes things happen for the best and sometimes people leave out lives only to return when the time is right. I wish you the best and remember it's better to know now then when you are married.