That really stinks about your server! Sorry that happened to you.
She sounds like a horror show. I always got the impression that WDW servers cut their teeth on lower end restaurants, then the excellent ones get promoted to the signatures. You would hope that someone who sounds that clueless wouldn't make the cut a signature.
Anyway, your photos are great! I'm glad to hear that you really liked the fries that came with the porterhouse. "Smoked paprika fries" didn't sound that special to me, but you make them sound fantastic.

I think I want to order that entree as it's my favorite cut of steak at home.
Fyi to anyone who is wondering, the porterhouse cut combines a piece each of New York strip and filet mignon steak by keeping them together on the bone.