Hi and thanks for the welcome!
Bibbidi - I read above that you were a little iffy about the cruise, let me chime in that you really are going to love it. It certainly is a different vacation than WDW, but it's just as good. Just wait until the sail away party when you are standing on deck, watching Mickey and your girls dancing away, and you hear the tremendous blast of the horn playing "When You Wish Upon a Star." I thought I was prepared for it (even listened to the recordings they have on the internet), but nothing prepares you for how powerful it is. I got chills! Even stoic, iffy about WDW DH's jaw dropped and he just said, "wooooooow." I'm kind of excited for you in fact!

(But, of COURSE you have to add at least a day for the park. Who can be that close to Orlando and resist?

I have to go just for the Dole Whip...though that would be one expensive Dole Whip)