First, thank you for the kind words over the past few days. I was glad to see my NYE 2008 group was able to pass along my emailed info to you guys so you knew what was going on. Brenda , LYMI (yes I'll have to give you that whole sotry soon)
As you all know my mom had her surgery on Thursday and wonderfully we learned that her lymph nodes were not involved.
She is now staying at the skilled nursing section of her retirement community. She is unable to keep track of what is needed thru out the daily care routine post-op due to her dementia, so until her drains are removed and she is back to normal we feel safer knowing she is under 24 hour care. We expect her to move back to her apartment toward the end of the next week.
She is having moments that are not so good. (she called me yesterday at 7am claiming all around her were crazy and she was packing up and leaving if I helped her or not, then hung up on me) Of course she doesnt remember this when I and my sisters (#3 & #1) arrived within the half hour to make sure she was ok.
Next week she will have the drains removed and move back home.
With in the following 2-4 weeks Ill meet with her cardiologist to try to sort out what we will do for the heart issues. Most likely Cumadin but that has its downside too for someone who is prone to falls, as she is.
I think Ill need to continue to be involved with her care issues daily for the next period of time (who knows how long that is) and frankly Im fatigued thinking about it. But such is my place and role in our family.
Im reading along with you, but still finding it hard to join in the daily chatter, but Im here so dont forget to say hi when you think of me.
Nan