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BobandLee -Can we use your experience to help plan a meeting on board? Last year on the 4 day cruise the Dismeet was right before the sail away party. It was so crowded on deck that I never found the group. In your past cruises what seemed to work?
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my experience?

O.K., on the last four cruise we have done, our group was very fortunate to have folks willing to plan stuff. Not me.
Basically, we had a short meet at about 3:30 before the muster drill to kinda get to know each other.
Then after the drill, the group met again at about 4:30 for the sailaway.
The meeting spot was on deck 10, starboard (right, facing front). Seems like it worked.
Some folks seemed to really enjoy it, others not so much.
This cruise, I will be a little more low key since the kids will be with us.
On past cruises, we had lanyards and/or t-shirts to recognize each other. But that might be a bit much considering the participation on this thread.
So, I guess we will just have to mill around and try and figure out who is who.
Whatever happens, I am sure that it will be a fun cruise.