All of your plans sound great

As much as I love Disney, I have a great time at US and IOA. I just read the blog on the main page about Universal being the place to be in 2012. I did tell DH I wouldn't plan any Disney trips in 2012, I don't think I made any agreements about planning Universal trips though
I'm sorry to hear about your awful experience at GF. I hope your trip to Park Fare goes much better. I'm still on the fence about GF and whether I like it or not. It seems a bit stuffy to me, but then on the other hand the Tanners on Full House stayed there. I would like to stay there for just a couple of days one trip, just to say I did.
I am like you and never fully take the time to enjoy AK. I really tried to take it all in and just enjoy last trip, but it was DH who keep trying to move us along to the next ride. I think since we are always there when it is 100 degrees it is hard to just relax and wander.
Tuskerhouse lunch sounds exciting. I am a bit scared of it too, so I can't wait to hear all about it. Our waitress for breakfast last year told us some lunch items and it seemed like there would be plenty of options for us and we are pretty simple, picky eaters. I am sure you will find plenty to eat.
I hope your DS enjoys EE. Caitin loved it in 2010 but it really scared her in 2011.

When she sees it on the Disney planning videos she claims it is the scariest ride ever and will never go on it again.
She did love the Jurassic Park ride at Universa though. She was a bit scared of the T-rex at the end, but closed her eyes for that part. She wanted to ride it over and over again. The flyers that only DS can ride are not scary at all. It is a very nice, SHORT ride above the trees. There is always a LONG line b/c there are so few people going at once. It wasn't worth the wait for me, but if you are able to get a short wait it is a nice, relaxing few minutes.
Hulk is awesome and the Mummy ride is great. I have not been on the Dr. Doom ride and intend to keep it that way.