Great update! I laughed, I cried, I mentally through out our touring plan...
We have had 1 trip to WDW and 1 to
Disneyland and I know how "finding the magic" can take you way off your plan...usually with happiy results! Still, being the control freak I am, it can be tough to accept. I am swearing that THIS time for Mark's Wish Trip, I am going to just go with flow (but still make the ADRs we have planned!) and accept once and for all that we're probably going back!!!
I can really relate to your "soapbox" comment about being brought to the front of the line. I remember the first time we took the boys to an amusement park north of Toronto (Canada's Wonderland). I felt very uncomfortable being brought forward all the time, which they did at that point for young kids with disabilities. (Now that the boys are older and go on more of the headliners, they use some thing like a fastpass system and give us a time to come back). I would pass a guilt smile and "thank you" to the family that thought they were next up for the roller coaster, only to be told that there was a disabled child coming who was going to go first. Specifically, I remember walking pass what must have been 200+ people to check out a raft-type ride (which Mark hated, by the way). We decided to ride, were taken on right away and had to walk right past all those same people on the way back out. We were soaked, so they knew we'd ridden...all while they moved a few feet!
I was uncomfortable all day. But I'm past that now. I just put in my mind all the challenges that Mark faces, all the extra time expenders (like bathroom, eating, resting and so on) that impact our days at the park, and realize that oh boy, does he deserve it, and his twin brother too! And you know, I've evolved enough that if we can split up so that Douglas can take in some of the b-i-g rides that Mark can't do, without as much of a wait, I'm all for it! Other Wish families have talked about siblings/parents being able to go on rides with either the GKTW button of GAC. I'm still not sure how that works. We won't abuse the rules, for sure...but if WDW or Universal want to treat Douglas like a king, he truly, truly deserves it!
Although we have seen kids asking their parents "why does he get to go first" we have always seen the parent lean over explain quietly, and then see the child's eyes widen as they examine the wheelchair, then nod. Never a bad reaction. We'll hope for the same again!
Isn't it great how they know you're coming with a wheelchair on the monorail? We stayed at the Grand FLoridian for our first trip, and lvoed being on the monorail. It meant Mark was able to use his walker to go to dinner at the Contemporary, Poly, etc. I remember walking out to the monorail one time. The CM leapt forward to get the ramp, and we tried to stop him, saying Peter and I could manage the lip. The CM said something like this,"Ma'am, when we meet a family like yours that includes a child with a disability, we know he and your family face challenges every day. While you're here with us at WDW, if we can do anything to make those challenges easier and make your day magicial, well that's what we're here to do."
Stepped onto monorail. Sat. Looked out window (away from boys), tears rolling down face. Realized that have finally found a vacation that works for family. Feel that for today, someone else wants to help shoulder the load.
(And by the way, for any Big Givers out there, that's what it felt like to receive your wonderful packages!)
10 more days!!! I can't wait!!! Actually, I have to pack for the Wish Trip for us today, because everything else in the house needs to get packed up (for more on our reno to make house accessible, please see my pre-trip.)
Thanks for brightening my day with your trippie!!!
Alison