I wondered which little birdie was doing the cross-pollination. Guess I found out.![]()
That's okay PIO: you'll always be my first.

Jud
I wondered which little birdie was doing the cross-pollination. Guess I found out.![]()
I am late dining. I need to start planning! I've barely done anything!
I am considering flying in on Wednesday since it basically takes all day to get to PR from Denver. SW hasn't released the Sept schedule yet. I would like to spend a little time in PR exploring plus abiding by my rule to never fly in the same day!
Jill in CO
In your DH's two seater plane???
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That's okay PIO: you'll always be my first.
Jud
That's okay PIO: you'll always be my first.
Jud
I have done exactly nothing other than booking a SJ hotel way back when.
I'd originally been thinking of flying in Thursday (booked Th/Fr at the Sheraton ) but some of the fares are better on the Wednesday. I still think that may work out better as the better fares back are on Sunday so we we may end up with a Thursday arrival (late) and then either a Saturday flight to Miami and spend a day at S. Beach or head back on Sunday so have one more night in SJ. There are some decent red eye options though so that may be a route as well. Technically we could do a Thursday red eye and get there Friday am. If we go through Miami there is a later flight if we somehow missed the connection so it's a valid option, especially if we need to fly home sunday or monday instead. Ultimately it will come down to $$ and total travel time. I won't do more than 1 stop and Jeff really doesn't want to go through JFK so that limits it a little.
No excursion info up yet but that doesn't really surprise me. I admit, seeing our fare was up $1100 was kind of WOW and then when we re-looked at the itinerary it was like..how could I have forgotten how awesome it is?
Now to find out if my parents are available thenAnd research what conflicts I'll have at work. I think I already double checked the big shows but am not positive.
Um.......Er........
(You DO remember that we are on a public chat room forum?)
I think SW connects through Orlando so maybe I'll do a night there... Not sure yet. I haven't booked a hotel yet...I can just sleep on the beach!
I told mt co-worker that he was going to have to reschedule his wedding if it overlapped my trip! Luckily the Broncos schedule worked in my favor?
Jill in CO
Just keeping up here too !!!
Thanks for the PM Cynthia! I'm late to the party because I've only been getting DIS time about once or twice a week!
Great intros - your parents sound AWESOME!!
I'm really excited to hear about this big trip!
I was thinking as you ran down the numbers at the beginning - "and a partridge in a pear tree!"
Well put about the couple's time and dates. You guys do a great job of that. We struggle with it, but try to squeeze some time in - it can be easier when the kids are older and you can leave them, but they also have so much going on
Dave and I are planning to go out tomorrow night - no work for us on Monday!!
Looking forward to more! I better pop on here more often now that you've got this thing rolling!
I think we've all had those moments! You want to talk about anything but the kids...but then find that's all you can think of to talk about! Your comment about the scuba lessons remind me of the time we tried dance lessonspoor Jeff has white man's disease quite badly (no rhythm for dancing at all) it was simultaneously hysterical and super frustrating for him. We still plan to try again..of course he blames it all on the fact that they wanted us to learn all styles and all he really wanted to learn were latin dances.
If you can do a regularly scheduled date night, at least once a month, it does get easier! Skip the movie, no real togetherness there and go for a walk before or after instead. A date dinner can be at a burger joint, it doesn't need to be fancy, sometimes the best things are simple, like a picnic.
A few things we used to do when the kids were younger helped a lot. We'd have a date night...in the house. All the kids would have gone to bed and we'd have a special dinner, in the dining room, music, candles, wine etc. Putting it into the more formal setting does kind of force you to talk but it doesn't have quite the pressure of the date night out. We still do this on Valentines Day every year and at other random times. It also saved a lot of $$, sitters aren't cheap! We would also take vacation days on Fridays while the kids were in school and go for long hikes or bike rides. I really miss those hikes, I don't have the number of vacation days I used to but oh we had so much fun! Nothing made us laugh harder than racing down a mountain to get to the car in time to make sure we made it back in time to pick up the kids from daycare. For a while we would also have a rule that on Sunday nights, no TV. We'd hang out in the living room together and read on the couch, together (versus in seperate chairs etc). Glass of wine and a fireplace and it made for really nice quiet time, just together that often ended up with a lot of good talks. We re-institute this every so often. This summer instead we'd do power walks on Sunday afternoons...to this neat outdoor brewpub, sit outside, chat with a beer and then power walk back. So fun!
We also, to this day, often eat dinner in shifts. The kids eat early and we eat late. Only on school night (M-Th) and then we eat as a family for the rest of it with Friday and Saturday being our bigger family dinner nights and then Sunday breakfast.
For us it's the only way we can get our workouts in, I'll get the kids settled with homework, evening activities and food (or let them fend for themselves on the food side as sometimes they prefer that), we go work out or run and then come home and make our meal. That gives us usually 3 nights of a more casual dinner together, watching "our" shows.
Now that the kids are older and can watch themselves when we go out, we've gotten away from some of those things but have replaced them with others. It used to be we ate in shifts on school nights simply because the kids needed to eat at 6 for a decent bedtime and neither of us were ready to eat that early having just gotten home maybe 20 minutes earlier, fitting in the workouts on top of it was almost impossible. Now that it is, and we are running together, those have taken the place of the hikes and no TV night although we probably still do that once a month. It does get easier when they get older, Jeff and I plan to see a movie tomorrow. Evan will be at a school dance (and no, I will not chaperone lol though I'll see him off for sure) and Eric will be home alone for a bit.
Some will disagree with this but I believe this is good for the kids on multiple levels. It teaches them that while we are there for them and enjoy being with them, it isn't all about them 100% of the time. It teaches them to be self sufficient. Some are better than others (Evan is amazing in the kitchen, the others not so much) but they all know some basics. It provides healthy relationship models as well as healthy living models (exercise) and hopefully most of the time shows them that having a balance of all if it, while not remotely easy, is possible. Occasionally they complain, for example when I go on my girls disney trips, they whine a little. And then I remind them that they get their own week at this camp or that camp that is somethign that's special to them, and that the girls trip is my "camp" and they are ok![]()