"Magical Gathering" for 19? Day 3 "The Passing of the Ring"

mt2

<font color=red>I eat my children's Easter and Hal
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Saturday, Jan 15th

See the Cast of Caracters on day 1. There are too many of us! ;)

If you have been reading, you might remember that I went to bed at 1:45am with DA#1. She is from CA and undiagnosed ADD. Well, she was still on CA time. She was up and down all night. UGH! I think I would have gotten more sleep if I had slept on the floor in the hall.

I wake up at 7am. DA#5 is supposed to meet at my room. I really didn't mean to wake everyone up but that is what happened. I couldn't see (it is really dark with the curtians drawn). I walked straight into the bathroom door. I was loud. I felt like a bull in a ballet. :blush: Everyone in this room was up.

I walk over to my room and I was able to get into the room. Apparently, DA#5 already came, woke up my DD's and went down to Whispering Canyon to get breakfast. I ran down after her. I didn't want her to think that I didn't remember that we were going to the Studios today. I looked awful. I was still in the clothes that I had slept in. I just ran my hands through my hair. (I also made sure that I didn't exhale my dragon breath on anyone :earseek: ). I found her eating by herself and stayed with her until she finfished. I warned her not to ask for any ketchup. She saw what I meant a few minutes later.

I ran back to my room (literally) to get dressed. All 3 of my kids were up but DH wasn't. Slacker! I took them over to my DM's room so they could eat breakfast. I washed up and changed my clothes. DH is still in bed but he is now watching TV and yelling at it. (It didn't yell back). I really didn't want to know why he was yelling. When this has happened in the past it was because of something not good.

I was finally able to go over to DM's room where DA#4, her DH, and DD's (Co#3 & #4) were all there. Ater DA#5 paid her bill she showed up too. We finally made it downstair to the bus 2 1/2 hrs after I woke up. Everyone had to either eat, go to the bathroom, get a jacket,money, or something inane. It took forever.

We arrived at the bus stop and had a small wait. Now DS just turned 3 in Dec. He doesn't understand Disney buses and the wait that might happened. My DM suggested to him that if he jumped on the #3 (Busstop # in the sidewalk) 10x that the bus would arrive. He did that. "Grandma, no bus." "I guess your sisters need to help." So they jump 10x more. No bus. Well, she joined in with DA#5 (former CM), DA#6 (sailor mouth), and DA#1 (undiagnosed ADD). No bus. DS was starting to get upset at the bus. So, DA#4 with her DD's (Co#3 and #4) along with her DH all join in on the jumping/counting festivities. We are the morning bus stop entertainment. They want me to join but I tell them that I'm guarding the stroller (this will haunt me later).

By now DS in almost inconsolable. I tell him (jokingly) that maybe he is doing it wrong. He probably needs to be upsidedown for it to REALLY, REALLY work. DA#4 get mad at me. "That is on his head. He will have brain damage if he tries it!" "He won't try it. He will just have a confused look for a moment and the bus will be here. Just watch and see." That was the absolutly most STUPIDEST (is this a real word?) thing I have ever said. And I have said many, many stupid things. I hear from DS "HELP ME SOMEBODY!" He is bent over at the waist with his hands on the ground and his right leg in the air. He wants someone to help him "jump" upsidedown. DA#5 runs over to him, grabs his shins and helps him to "jump" on his hands 10x.

By this time the bus stop is rolling with laughter. I raise my right hand and swear to "never, never, never ever make any suggestions to my DS again." DS stand up and "NO BUS MOMMY!" He turns to DA#5 "Again". So they do it again. I then tell DA#5, "He had 2 bowls of chocolate cerel for breakfast. Bounce at your own risk." She turns him upright and a bus for the Studios turns the corner. He screams with delight and nearly runs out into the way of the bus to meet up with it. He was grabbed before he could go more than 2 steps. I guess with that many DA's and Grandma you really can't get far.

We load onto the bus. There are only 12 of us. The others will meet up with us later on at the park. I wanted to get a family pic. I asked the CM with the cameras at the front if he could get on of us. He had his back to us when the 12 of us got ready. When he turned around, the look on his face was priceless. "All of you?!" I said, "No, the other 7 will join up with us later." "There's more?!" "Sure are!" We all laughed.

We get there and head over to RR. My DD's have never been on this. My DM says that she, DA#4 and her DH will watch DS while the rest of us go on it. The line moves quickly and we are close to the loading area. DD#1 watches them take off. She is panicked and scared that something will happen to her. I hold her jaw with my hands and tell her "I would never knowingly put you in harms way. I love you too much to want you to get hurt. Plus, I woouldn't go on it either." She is happy with this and we all go on. I thought about buying the pictures but decided against it when I saw them. The look on both of their faces was not that silly scared look that they can do but of pure terror. I really felt bad. They decided that it was fun and they would go on it again but not today (or this trip). OK, you tried it. That's enough.

We then walked through the animation area. The kids like the computers and stuff there but I was really saddened by it all. I remember it from when it was a working studio. The desks of the animators. DH and I loved seeing what was on their work stations. We saw them working on "Beauty and the Beast" on our honeymoon.

We walked over to the hat, and we met up with DH, DA#2, her DD (co#2) and her DH, and DHof DA#5. We decided to eat. We went over to the Backlot food place (sorry, I forgot the actual name at this moment. I had 2 filling done today).

After lunch we saw Muppet Vision 3-D, the raining umbrella, and everyone decided to go on the backlot ride. DH, DS, and I waited for them. We remembered that it was at least a 20 - 25 min ride. So we took DS over to meet MM. We didn't see anyone we knew so we went to see DD, Daisy and Jojo. DS was in heaven but he needed a nap. We walked to the front looking for anyone. No one around we knew. DH and DS head over to WL. I stay there to see if I can find anyone.

I go back to the hat and stand in the middle. I remembered what everyone was wearing. NOTHING!.. I did take a pictures for several people. A group of Russians (about 20), a young cute couple (newly weds?), a family of 8 (3 generations) and another family. I never found mine though. I waited for about 30 minutes. I decided to head over to WL. Then I saw them. DH (English Pub guy) of DA#4 and Co#3 & #4. They were on their way out. "Where is everyone?" "They all went back to WL about 1 hr ago." I was dumbfounded. Apparently, the BLot tour is really, really short now (new show, I forgot). It was now 3pm and dinner was at 5:40pm at Cape May Buffet at the Beach Club. I got back to the WL and everyone was resting.


mt2

Part 2 down page.
 
Yay! I came home to walk the puppy, get a quick bite and just to check in. Now I'm going to be late getting back to work!!
 
We need to leave for the Beach Club at 4:30 the latest to make it on time. I have emailed this info and told everyone at least 4x over the past couple months. Even with this info, 6 people are not there. We take the bus back to the Studios to catch the boat to the Beach Club. DD#1 is sitting on my lap. Boy, she really has grown. I'm sitting next to DA#1. We have a nice talk. She thanks me for putting all of this together for everyone. She knows that I'm busy with 3 kids and my DH travels alot (about 2 weeks out of every month). It's nice to be appreciated. We stop at the Swan/Dolphin first. DA#1 "Is this our stop?" "No, the next one." "Oh, OK". DA#4 (sitting behind me) "hey,mt2, is this our stop?" "No, the next one." "Oh, OK". DA#2, sitting across from me, "Is this our stop?" "No, it's the next one." "Oh, OK". They really are sisters aren't they? :rolleyes1 As we stop at our stop no one moves. They are all just sitting there. I turn the them and say "My group this is the stop if you plan on eating." "OH!" We all pile out of the boat.

I check us in. I give them my name and the look again is priceless. "OH! 16 adults and 3 kids, right?" "Well, they claim to be adults but I'm not sure that is the case." She smiled and laughed. We were seated within 5 minutes.

SIDENOTE: I need to explain about "The Passing of the Ring". When my grandmother died I was told by DA#4 that i was supposed to get her bridal set. I'm a Graduate Gemologist. I love her rings. They were designed and made by her uncle (my great great uncle). I never saw her without out it on except when I was cleaning it for her at my wedding 14 yrs ago. I was excited but they still needed to talk to DA#1. It was never put in the will. When it came time, DA#1 said that don't any of them remember, it was decided that she would get it because she was the oldest. (I wasn't there for any of this, DM told me the story after the funeral). There was a big discussion about how she could have it but it was not to be willed to anyone else except to someone on our side of the family (not her DH's). She suggested that they break up the set. That was Nixed by everyone. She then stated that they all should wear it for one year each. What ever is what DM thought. None of them will ever see it again. Then comes DM 60th birthday in 2003. At dinner (2003) at Cape May Buffet, is when DA#1 "passed the Ring" to DM. I thought that then I could get it. I didn't. DA#6 had made a scrapbook. On the 1st page is a picture of my grandparents. They are smiling and happy. On the 2nd page is a picture of my GM with her 6 DD's. (There is 1 boy. He is the oldest.) Everyone is smiling. That picture was taken the day after I got married in Jan 1991. Each DD has a page to write anything they want. It is now time to "Pass the Ring" again. This is what we are all here for. I have been very bitter about not getting the rings as I was told I would. (3 yrs is a long time).

DH forgot to bring DS's diaper bag. He decides to have a BM. I go the the gift shop and get diapers and change him. We are sitting (DH, DS, me, Co#2 and her DH) getting ready to eat. DS looks at us about to shovel food in our mouths and say, "we need to pray". Nothing like 4 adults being shown up by a 3 yo. DA#1 comes down to our end of the table to talk to us. My DM comes over and grabs her. "It's time for the passing of the ring" The 6 sisters are at the other end of the tables. They are standing around the sister (DA#4) whom the ring will be given. They are holding each others hands or arms. They are all smiling and each other. DA#3 says something that they can only hear. Then she takes off the ring and gives it to DA#4. They are trying to hold back the tears but are not very successful.

It is in that very moment that God smacked me upside my head. I finally get it. I was never to have this ring. I'm not supposed to. If it wasn't for this ring, this small piece of platinum and gems, these 6 women, sisters, would never get together at one time. They have their lives is CA, CO, TX, MD, MD, and FL. They didn't have to get together this year because the sisters that are passing the ring live in MD 1 hour away from each other. An effort has to be made by all to get here for this moment. This is what my grandmother would have wanted for her DD's. I sit there and fight back my tears of ashame. The shame of being angry and bitter about not getting this ring is overwhelming. DH squeezes my hand and asks if I'm ok. I smile at him and tell him that everything is just where it is supposed to be in our life.

We all finish dinner and head out. We always take a pic of all the sisters in age order. Well, the next generation (mine) took one as well. In our generation we are missing 5. My brother, and 4 cousins. Maybe next year will be the year that everyone will come. Oh dear!

DM, DA#1, and DA#6 decide that it is too misty for my kids to be out. They decide to take them back to WL while DH,myself, DA#3, Co#2 and her DH, DA#4, her DH, and Co#3 & 4 all go over to Illuminations. 5 of us go shopping and will meet up with the other 4 on the bridge between UK and France. They never showed back up. DA#4 told her DH that we were supposed to meet back up at the bridge near Norway. :rolleyes1

The show was great as always. We head back to WL and get to bed at Midnight. This was great, not at 2am. I was happy.

DS wakes up and is trying to to get out of bed. "What's wrong?" "Everybody leave me." "No one has left you. Everybody is night night. It's dark outside." "Oh, okay." He lies back down to sleep. Nightmare. I look at the clock. It's 2:15am. I'm sooooooo tired.

mt2

Next: "They left and didn't say goodbye"


edited to add: There are many other things that happened this night but my mouth is throbing so but due to getting 2 teeth filled that it is hard to keep any thoughts straight. Maybe I'll add them to an afterthought.

Thanks for reading.
 
the passing of the rings was great....it's nice to have such meaningful traditions like that.....my grandparents both had large families (14 brothers and sisters) and it's nice to see your mom and her sisters making the effort to stay in touch and part of each other's lives, even just once a year....so sweet!!
 

Okay, this one made me cry. Great trip report. :) I can't wait to read more. I hope you feel better soon!
 
My favorite installment so far. I hope your mouth feels better soon. Will be looking forward to Day 4.
 
What a great tradition! and a great family! and a great trip.

I hope you're feeling better soon. :wave:
 















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