Well, certainly it all makes sense now ... that you detected a problem that others didn't.
As I said, I wasn't being argumentative. If she was upset, that's very unfortunate because that certainly wasn't my aim. Thinking about WDW should be fun for all of us! So I say this in a very matter-of-fact, non-argumentative, non-angry manner -- I've re-read my response over and over and still don't think I said anything in a harsh manner or in any way that I could reasonably forsee someone feeling upset from it. Truly.
But I also want to make sure that others don't get incorrect information and then pass it on, and so on and so on ....
She asked a normal question, I gave a normal correct response, she then doubted the accuracy of my response, so I went into greater detail.
And please try to look at it from my perspective ...
It can also be upsetting to be nice and answer someone's question correctly and respectfully and in a friendly manner and think you did a nice thing for them, only to be told you're wrong and have your nice response be disregarded.