We are going to be staying at the Animal Kingdom Lodge. Our general DL plan is to be at a park 30 minutes before EMH (sorry...so used to calling it magic morning

) and ride until around noon, eat lunch and then head back to our hotel to rest and come back to the park around 5pm for the evening activities. It sounds like it might more more sense to do to the "recommended" park in the evening.
I see pieces of the answer to your OP in previous posts. I will try to put together a complete answer for you here based on DLR comparisons...
1. Parkhopping at WDW is much more time consuming at WDW than at DLR. Personally I never do it while I frequently park hop at DLR.
2. Since many people make the same "no parkhopping decision" at WDW that I do, then whatever park you choose in the morning you are basically stuck with
3. WDW has 20+ resort hotels that serve some 70,000 guests a day. All of those guests have EMH privileges. DLR has three resort hotels. Not sure how many guests are served but on average with 3 hotels instead of 20+ it would be about 1/7 of WDW - or about 10,000 guests a day.
4. WDW markets EMH more heavily than DLR does
5. WDW guests tend to not be as savvy - on average - as DLR guests - many of whom are SoCal locals and/or AP holders.
6. Thus many WDW guests tend to "follow the herd" and just go to whatever park has EMH that day - even when they can't even wake up early enough to get to the park for EMH!
7. Bottom line is EMH parks at WDW tend to have a disproportionate number of WDW hotel guests that skew attendance. Without being able to parkhop, guests are stuck in this park with higher attendance. If this ever happened at DLR, for example, guests would just hop to the other park because it is so easy. Not at WDW.
9. If you are not staying at a WDW hotel with EMH privileges it is an absolute no brainer to avoid EMH parks because you can't use EMH anyways.
10. If you are staying at WDW hotel with EMH privileges (such as AKL) then many or most touring plan sites recommend you avoid EMH parks just because the other parks are less crowded. Not everyone on this forum agrees with that but the planning sites seem to.
