Update...................
Well it is only 10 days until we leave for our planning trip and I'm starting to get a bit excited. The only thing that is stopping me from getting totally excited is that our children are not coming with us
We made the decision to come alone for a couple of reasons....
1) At least half of this trip will be taken up with meetings and planning for the wedding for which the kids would have been bored.
2) The kids would never of got a week away from school when we are already scheduled to have them out of school for 3 weeks in May for the wedding.
This does not stop me from feeling bad

I have a total guilty parent feeling.
Its like saying to them "we're going to Disney na na na na na !"
The thing is thought the kids dont actually seem that bothered because they are getting to stay at their Nana's for a week !
Oh well, its booked, we're going, so I had better start looking forward to it ! Anyway who says we don't deserve a 'pre-wedding honeymoon'
For the past few weeks now I have been glued to google images searching for inspiration pictures - here are a few of them that I still have to slot into my planning folder
Heres some colour samples we got from the local paint store for ideas of different shades we could use.
The material in the picture is a sash in our bridesmaids colour that I borrowed from the bridal store where we got our bridesmaids dresses from. It is buttercup yellow and chiffon.
You can see the colour better in this picture as it is against a white cushion.
I have more pictures to show you but photobucket is running realllllllllllllllllllly sloooooooooooooooooow just now !!
Will post more tomorrow.
Here's one last pic...
Lee fooling around whilst we were choosing our menu to taste at our PS and our song choices . (he'll kill me if he sees this

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LOL
Linz xxx
