Wait why are mortgages a corporate shell game?
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This is the only defense response I'm going to provide to your post. I do not want this thread to be hijacked by an argument, and you have validated to me why I don't try to help people out on this board. No matter what people say, it seems they are immediately attacked and shamed. Well done.
I'm sorry - perhaps you didn't see the part where I said "I mean no slight against anyone in the banking field". There was no need to attack me, or belittle me because of my choices. I don't know if your post was designed to insult me, or to make yourself feel better. I hope you accomplished both and you're satisfied with your actions, but I'm afraid you've made a boatload of incorrect assumptions.
Everyone has different financial goals - and I think that's wonderful. Wouldn't it be boring if we all did the same thing? I applaud the fact that your financial planner has netted you a 21% growth rate. Not all of us have such whiz bang financial gurus in our network. I certainly don't! In addition, not all of us - including the original poster - are paying 4% in mortgage interest...for some of us, it's higher. Please don't judge me by your yardstick.
As for "overextending" myself - I think you need to step back and refrain from making assumptions about my financial life, friend. Frankly, it is none of your business, just as it is none of mine to ask the original poster what his/her finances are. The fact that I was able to cut a 30 year mortgage down to 14 years should be proof that I'm financially solvent. And just to satisfy your burning curiosity: I contribute to a 401k, RothIRA and have an emergency fund that will support me for 18 months. I have an annuity and am able to make multiple "principal payments" every month, which is how I've cut my mortgage so dramatically. I am grateful for my situation, because I've been on the other side of the financial fence as well.
The point that I was making was that if a person - not necessarily me, but I suppose you felt the need to make that assumption - had to choose between saving for their retirement and paying for their home (and there are PLENTY of people who are making that decision every day...), it would have given me 1 year to totally focus on retirement. The knowledge that I wouldn't have paid my house off until I was 64 is what spurred me to make a positive change in my life. Some people do not have the luxury of being able to pay their mortgage and fund their retirement simultaneously. I don't know if you were aware of this, but we had a severe financial crash some years ago, and people are still trying to recover. A lot of people lost jobs, many lost their homes, and some are just struggling to tread water, when they were swimming strong 10 years ago.
For me, it's more important to pay off my house early. I simply do not want to be in debt. Not everyone has the same goal, and that is the way it should be. We are not all cookie cutter versions of everyone else. The original poster indicated that she wanted options for her mortgage. I just shared how I cut my mortgage balance down without refinancing. It wasn't a mandate that I expected her to do, just another option to consider. Not everyone has the resources to do what I did. My intention was to share my experience in case something I say might help the OP get closer to achieving his/her goal. I didn't share my experiences to give you an opportunity to make fun of them.
My financial journey has been difficult, and I am darned proud of where I've gotten through hard work and sincere effort. You might not agree with me, and that's ok, but there was no reason for you to belittle my choices, other than to make yourself feel superior to the rest of us.
In spite of your pearls of wisdom, I still believe that mortgages are a legitimized shell game, and I place the blame squarely on the shoulders of the banking system. This is the same banking system who had their hands out for TARP bailouts, and I for one will not become a banking apologist. Many people have lost their homes due to the unfairness of the banking system.
I have never had an expectation that someone will simply give me money to pay for a house, and I fully expect to pay interest on a loan. Interest isn't a bad thing, but excessive interest never hits the wealthy as hard as it does us regular folks. Please don't insult me by suggesting that I am of the entitlement mindset. I have worked hard for every single penny I've earned, and I don't expect handouts.
However, when I take out a loan for $150k and it ends up costing me more than $100k in additional interest over 30 years, I feel that is excessive, and it certainly wasn't something that my mortgage broker made clear to me. Let's face it, your 4% loan is not 4% on the balance of the loan. It's calculated every MONTH (divided by 12) based on the current balance. For 30 years. That is 360 months! I'd be ok if I had a 10% interest rate, but calculated as a lump sum on the full balance and added to the total. Banks would still make a profit. Fractional banking using fiat currency is nothing but a fancy word for usary. I've done my homework, and you can too, making your own decision based on the facts. You may not come to the same conclusion I do, but I humbly suggest you try to respect those whose opinions differ from yours.
In conclusion, congratulations. You've made it clear that you're better than the rest of us because you made a different decision based on your personal circumstances, and of course, there is no room for other opinions or other ways to succeed. Not everyone's goal is to make boocoodles of money - some of us just want to be secure and happy - for me, my family and friends are more important than having a bazillion dollars. Everyone has their priorities, and they should all be respected.
For the original poster - there are many options out there, from refinancing, to paying off the house, to investing. None of them are bad options. But I think we do a disservice to the OP if we say "do it this way or you're an idiot. There are no alternatives." Now, let's get back to helping the nice person who started this discussion.