As I stated they were thorough but never felt they were being rude or intrusive. He was actually polite and friendly while being very detailed. Handled quite well. You can’t possibly think that they can just give
DAS to anyone saying “I have a disability” without questioning further.
Unfortunately the biggest problem with reigning excess in is always how badly out of control the excess got. Disney let the DAS pass become something it was never supposed to be. It was not designed to be a catch all and NEVER designed to help mobility issues.
I think it's about to extreme now, but I also think that just saying I have anxiety should not be a reason to get it. We all have anxiety and if you are at Disney, the line for a ride is not the only the time it will show, so you need to be ready with other coping methods.
People started asking for it for the slightest issues, even if they were able to stand in stand by because of FOMO or just want over need. It was easier. It got abused. Easily. Now they have to explain why they need it over just wanting it. That is not insulting, it's asking for just the facts. We do it everyday when we apply or are asking for things that we decide we need in our life.
The CM for my Kiddo as friendly, but I Will admit I told her everything we do or don't do for kiddo, from school, to home, to shopping and other places in the park. At the end I asked if she needed anything and she just laughed and said nope you covered everything. Prepare without drama I think some are going to worst case scenario and that isn't what they are looking for, They are looking for typical. Because if worst case scenario is all the time, then that is a whole different discussion, IMO.
As for talking about ones disabilities, I can only speak for us, but we have always encouraged our daughter to be honest about what she can and can't do. It's part of who makes her. It's not a shortcoming, it individuality. She can do what she wants , just her way. So we taught her to speak up fro herself in her own way about her own issues. It has empowered her, especially this year in school, to be able to really see how far she can go and how much she can have her voice heard. She is proud to discuss her abilities.