Wishes dessert party AND MNSSHP?! I am so jealous but SO excited for you! I really hope that they have the Wishes dessert party whenever we go -- it looks like we're going in January but haven't booked anything yet and I am so anxious to. Katie got to go to it on her October trip, I think. I remember getting pictures from her. I forget just how or when it started, but we send each other pictures of food to make the other jealous, especially if it's something not easily accessible to us, like cider slush or cider doughnuts to me and Sonic to her.
That 40th anniversary t-shirt is really cute, I think my friend has a similar one

It might not have the 40th anniversary logos on it but I love it!
4 Parks, 1 World...that is hands down my favorite Disney CD! That and the Wishes soundtrack. I actually have a playlist on my iPod that is all Disney music and those two CD's are on it. I LOVE "Legacy" b/c Epcot is my favorite park and whenever I listen to it I can picture just walking into the park. I want THIS on my iPod:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=doGRqUVUzIM
It's only part of the Innoventions music loop but it brings back soooooo many memories! Especially of being in Epcot at night.
The Behind the Seeds tour looks really cool! Good luck keeping it a secret from your DH -- I am the same way with surprises...sometimes I'm just so proud of myself I can't keep my mouth shut