Looking for tips for going it alone

[jenk99]

My friend planned her trip to Disney last year. It was to be her and her husband and their 4 children. Well, a few months ago he got word that he is getting deployed to Iraq.

My friend (the mom) still wants to take the trip, but she is really nervous about traveling alone with the 4 kids. They are 2 boys (ages 15 and 12) and 2 girls (ages 6 and 4).

I would greatly appreciate any tips, suggestions, advice, etc... you can offer that I could pass along to them to make their trip less stressful. This is such a hard time for them and I know the trip will be a great stress reliever if they go about it the right way.

Thanks in advance for any feedback!!

 

[coyandrew]

If the two boys are responsible, I would suggest the buddy system. Pair one of the boys up with each girl, and ask them to look after their little sister to make it a magical experience. In return, let the boys get to choose which day they go to which park and give them more involvement in the planning. Maybe even some time in the park to themselves (again if the mom would feel comfortable with them doing so, I would go through parks at that age by myself but I guess the world and World are changing). Other than that, just plan their itinerary as much as possible and try to have fun. And take lots of pictures to send to dad!

 

[Phlpsfamily01]

We almost had this happen to us and there was no way I was taking 2 girls alone so i had an alternative plan. I think I read that the sitters on site can also go with you thru out the day. I'm sure it's pricey but at least it's an extra hand. I'm sure her DH is paid for can she invite a Mother in law or sister in law or someone to take his place?

GL

 

[MSSANDRA]

With the ages of the boys, she should be fine!! I would stay on site to feel the most secure. Plan to go at the slowest child's pace and when anyone is tired, everyone takes a break. I would allow the older boys some freedom in the park as i am sure the girls will have some very different interest. if the younger child is too little to do some of the rides, the oldest three should be fine in line alone. Unles there are major behavior problems or special needs, she should not have to many worries.

 

[jenk99]

Thanks for the great suggestions guys. I'm jotting down notes to pass along to her.

That was a really good idea about her taking her mom with her to help. I'll have to ask her why she didn't consider that. It may have something to do with money. But a good suggestion nonetheless.

Keep them coming!!

 

[ILoveDisney&Cruising]

I'm sure her DH is paid for can she invite a Mother in law or sister in law or someone to take his place?

I was thinking the same thing ........ actually, I was thinking about YOU going with her. It's a tough job, but somebody should do it.

 

[jenk99]

I was thinking the same thing ........ actually, I was thinking about YOU going with her. It's a tough job, but somebody should do it.

LOL!! Now that is the best tip I've heard all day!!

Seriously, we are going in December so that just isn't going to happen. Wow, two trips in less than 2 months. One can only dream.....