Appreciate the responses so far...I'll add some info to help you help us
10 of us will be there - 4 adults in their 30s, 4 children ranging from 2-8 (2 boys 2 girls), and my wife's parents. We are at Disney from 11/5-11/12, and this will be the final dinner on the 11th before we leave the next morning/early afternoon. Our other dinner reservations throughout the week are: Akurshus, O'hana, Liberty Tree Tavern, Grand Floridian Cafe (or Yak and Yeti if they ever open up Animal Kingdom at night), Be Our Guest, and San Angel Inn.
Fireworks at California Grill would be wonderful, but with the children, at the end of what will likely be a long week, I don't think they will make it to 9pm or 9:30pm or 10:00pm when they go off. When we remove the firework draw, California Grill is a great restaurant, but probably not worth it to us. Our original thought was to do something at the Grand Floridian (especially if we dropped GFC for Yak and Yeti earlier in the week), but then thought about downtown. We wanted to take the boat there for some shopping and to see what's new one afternoon, so then thought we would possibly turn it into a nice dinner the night before we leave. With the 2 year old, something like Raglan Road might be a bit too loud, although i hear it gets good reviews. We were already looking at Morimoto, but thought we'd ask if something else is also worth considering as well.
Thanks again in advance.