Looking for Not so new here update

[Gail T AGAIN]

Where has NSNH been? I am curious if anything has developed in here quest of love/companionship?

 

[ltldeb]

She hasn't posted in a while. I hope everything is okay. I'd love to hear how things are going.

 

[TigerBear]

I'm interested too! Hope all is well.

 

[Not So New Here]

x

 

[luvindisneyworld]

I hope things work out for you two.sounds like he does care for you.if you are that interested in him,why dont you just ask him out.i am the one who approached my DH,he is so shy that he would have never asked me out.we have been married going on 4 years.BTW, we dated for about 18 months and had lived together from shortly after we met, i got tired of just living together and told him that if he did not marry me in 6 months that is was over. he waited till his time was about up and then said,Why dont we get married, LOL,guees what, we got married 2 days after that.

what i am trying to say is GO FOR IT, and dont be scared.if he is anything like my wonderful DH your gonna have to do something or its not gonna get done.please keep us informed.

 

[jamsmom]

I am so glad that you are developing a good friend. Who knows where it can lead

 

[UncleKyle]

Sounds like it's going well. Thanks for the update!

 

[WDW Poly Princess]

I'd been wondering if we were going to get an update! Looks like things are going well!

 

[KimRaye]

Thanks for the update!

 

[Gail T AGAIN]

A good relationship starts with a solid friendship. Seems like that seems to be the path that the both of you are headed. I am so happy for you, I just wish it could happen to me. keep us posted

 

[ltldeb]

I agree with Gail. DH and I were best friends before we started dating. Thanks for the update. Keep us posted!

 

[Not So New Here]

x.

 

[luvindisneyworld]

Well that really SUCKS.

 

[ltldeb]

I am so sorry to hear this. Please know you have us hear to vent to if you need to.

 

[Gail T AGAIN]

Guys are like pond scum. They are insesitive, uncaring and hung on themselves. Weel NSNH, this guy is a jerk. You deserve much better.

 

[jamsmom]

At times, they do stink!

I think it would be cool to have a "singles forum" on the DIS AT least we could meet someone who liked WDW like we do.


Of course, this doesn't apply to meet at this moment in time.

 

[AnnMorin]

Maybe he is afraid you would reject him!! As I told you once before, GREAT guys can love large women! I am now down 40 pounds but DH loved me as a pooh (ok more like pooh on steroids I still need to lose another 30) and never thought twice about it! Yes he is thrilled with the healthier me but even told me directly that he has always found me beautiful and it has never been an issue for him. Maybe just maybe this guy is afraid you don't find him attractive? I would suggest since you have nothing to lose just tell him how you feel. You may be pleasently surprised.. if nothing else you will finally know the truth and be able to stop guessing and second guessing yourself.

 

[vald1977]

Sorry to read this, NSNH. I have been following your story from the beginning. Please, please don't blame this on your looks. There could be a million reasons why this isn't working out and the reason could have absolutely nothing to do with you. Hope things start looking up for you again soon. Who knows? Spring is here and maybe a new love is just around the corner.

 

[Antonia]

Not So New Here - if after all this time you have not had a "real" date and you feel like a 'phone friend' - I think it would be healthy for you to start to wean yourself from him. It is not a good thing to keep your hopes up for a relationship that is not happening. Sure, you could still talk work stuff with him, but when 5 out of 6 calls are non-work related, cut him short a few times and cut out the late night chats. Maybe all that is enough for him, but obviously it is not enough for you. And don't sell your self short due to your physical attributes. Larger people are still great people and someone out there will see that. Get out there and do some things for yourself - join some organizations, work on the kitchen crew at your church - a great way to meet people, attend community events. Get out there and meet people and smile and a guy will come along that wants to actually spend quality time with you in person and not on the phone. Best of luck to you. And don't give up - Mr. Right will come along!

 

[Not So New Here]

Thanks for all the encouragement everyone. It is still so hard for me because I am so into him - and we have so much in common.

So today I have not heard from him since 11am. He said he had this and that to do and would talk to me later on. I had to do a work favour for him and emailed him the details, requesting an answer, and nothing - so maybe he really was busy with something....but god knows what.
He is probably seeing someone else and spending the day with her. He is probably playing me bigtime, but cant commit to one little evening out and about. Im sad
I think I am going to start weaning off him - start cutting some calls short because I am busy or something - then let him chase me a bit if he truly is interested.