If your friend's home resort is VWL, then that's the ONLY resort she can book at right now, and it appears even that resort is full since you say you're waitlisted.
As you probably know, she can't use VWL points to book at any of the other
DVC resorts until the 7-month window. For a November reservation, that's April. The exact date in April depends on your vacation dates. So I don't think she has you already book at one of the other resorts, unless of course she owns at more than one resort (has two home resorts) and still had the 11-month window somewhere other than VWL. You should really clarify if she does indeed have another home resort and you are booked, or she was just saying she would try to book one of the other resorts.
Keep in mind that at 7-months,
all members can book anywhere they want regardless of home resort. So even if BWV, BCV etc might have availability today, it could disappear completely very quickly when that 7-month window opens.
The fact that you're already waitlisted at her home resort gives you an idea of the popularity of the November timeframe.
Truthfully your chances at BCV, AKV, or BWV are very slim. Chances at getting into SSR or OKW are a lot better, but no guarantee.