I'd like to stay out, but I have to jump in. And I'm apologizing right off the bat - I have a huge headache (almost migraine) and I'm not as comprehensible as I'd like to be. The result is that I'm sure this post could have been half the length, and made more sense.
I'm Canadian. My fiance is American. He's positively aghast at the taxes we pay up here, frankly I usually don't give them a second thought.
Before I was self-employed, my hours of work went to benefit someone else. Meaning that yes although I was being paid in return for my work, ultimately the consequence was that the company or employer received the benefit of my work. Because my job was in their control, and I could be laid off etc at any point, I contributed (as required) to EI.
EI is there to protect people who do not have ultimate control over their jobs.
I am now self-employed. My job is completely under my control, and therefore I do not pay EI. If I am sick and unable to work, or choose to take time off for a child, well then I'd darn well either have the money saved up or have private insurance to cover it.
As for maternity leave, we take the "whole village" approach here. You know, the old saying that "It takes a whole village to raise a single child". That means that we look out for each other, and we do what's best for the village as a whole. Because none of us is an island, we don't exist in a vacuum (can I use more cliches here?!). We still have to interact with society, and to a large extent our experiences are shaped by those interactions. Does contributing to the overall betterment of society not lead to a more fullfilling life experience in the long run? How do you attain that if you stay with the "I'm only concerned with ME" approach?
And for those of you wondering about costs, here's the info I've been able to gather:
If you're making say $50,00 a year, living in Winnipeg, you're paying:
$819 in EI (maximum annual contribution)
$900 in CPP (Canada Pension Plan)
$8,900 in Federal tax
$6053 in Provincial tax
Total deductions: $16,672
Take-home pay: $33,328
That's assuming you don't have any other deductions, like a premium health care or union dues etc.
In return for that, we have the comfort and security of knowing that any time we need help, it's there for us. If someone is laid off from work, he'll have a little bit of income to help him until he finds another job, so that he can continue to care for his family. Why should it matter if it's a stranger or a close friend or family member? Our health care gets paid for from those taxes. I might be fortunate enough to never need major surgery, it doesn't mean I'm going to be upset because I've paid money into the health care system and I'm not using it as much as someone else is.
As for the EI, as far as I know it's all one pot. If Sally has a baby and uses all her EI benefits in taking a year of combined parental leave, great. If she gets laid off 4 months after going back to work, she's already used up her EI and she's not eligible for benefits - it's not like there's a separate fund for maternity money.
I've seen several posters take issue with the fact that women are CHOOSING to have children and taking the time off. Well, on the flip side of the coin isn't NOT having children a choice? Those who can't have children "of their own" are still able to adopt, and I'm fairly certain they're still eligible for parental leave.
EI is like the difference between eating at home, and eating out a buffet. If I chose to eat at home, I'm responsible for my meal and I don't have to pay a fee for it. If I chose to eat at a buffet, then I'm required to pay. Now then, at the buffet there's a variety of options. I personally can't eat seafood, so I'm not going to be choosing that. EI is a multi-faceted program that happens to include maternity leave. Just like I don't get a lower price at the buffet because I'm not going to be taking advantage of the crab legs, some people contributing to EI may never take advantage of parental leave. Oh well. That's just the way it goes.
I'm a
travel agent. I've had people try and get lower pricing at all-inclusive resorts because they don't eat at buffets, they don't eat bread, they have wheat allergies, they don't drink - you name it. Sorry, it's an all-inclusive price. Just because you don't use part of it doesn't mean you don't have to pay the same price that someone else does who might use more. So some people choose to have children and others don't. It's still the same deductions.
And if you never have to use the EI money you've contributed, then you can at least have the satisfaction of knowing that money has benefitted someone else. Like maybe a relative. Or a total stranger. What's the difference? None.
If everyone had the "I only care about me" attitude there would be no social programs at all. And no neighbourhood watch. And no sense of community whatsoever. Because it seems to me that you can't have a sense of community without caring about the people that live in it.