PROOF that Disney doesn't get it. Good service NEVER looks at a customer this way. My coworker asked for it at Gibson's in Chicago and the response was "Yes M'amm' Same at Flemings and other good places.
While you and I can't imagine doing this, that does not make it wrong for others. It's their money and they should be allowed to eat food that makes then happy (plus it's going to cost you more the $40 at Le Cellier LOL! )
It's not always about negatively judging a customer, it's about maintaining a culinary image in CERTAIN dining aspects.
If you come here to Philadelphia or NYC and visit an upscale steakhouse, you won't find any commercial steak sauce available in 99% of locations.
Dousing a steak in A1 overpowers the taste of the steak itself, diners who pour steak sauce all over their steak are always said to not even like steak if that's what they're doing.
By not providing steak sauce in an upscale steakhouse, they're saying, "Our steaks don't require steak sauce." Not one upscale steakhouse I've been to (Del Friscos, Prime, Portobello's, Barclay Prime to many others) even have it available.
Capital Grille and Ruth Chris have commercial steak sauce, but there's it's not readily on any table for a reason and for 60 tables with steak, you might see one bottle. In the culinary world, a restaurateur would rather have the image of not providing steak sauce due to the integrity of their meat. Le Bec-Fin wouldn't even cook a steak beyond medium. The paying customer, simply couldn't buy a steak there if we wanted it any form of well because Perrier stated that he 'wouldn't serve ruin beef cuts'
In the end, I'm all for 100% eating whatever you want HOWEVER you want for your money. And the waitstaff want a good tip, nobody's going to be unbecoming to your face for asking for steak sauce. But in Gibson's or Capital Grille, asking for steak sauce for your steak is getting a diner judged as being out of your element and not knowing a good steak. If I liked well done steak smothered in A1, no place would deter me from ordering as I please.
You might find it better value to go to Rose & Crown as you could get steak for $28 instead of $39-$49 and if he would normally just eat Steak without a fancy sauce he may find that a better idea?
I agree with this 110%.
There's no point in seeking a dry or wet-aged steak or black angus steak for double the cost to bury it in A1. With the strong tastes of these steak sauces, it's not even about liking the taste of steak, it's like the steak just serves as a carrier and texture for the taste of A1 or Heinz 57