life sucks....my husband just passed away.

[monorailsilver]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[mommytoone]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[Eeyore4me764]

I just wanted to let you know that you and your little girls are in my thoughts.

 

[kadee_29]

I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 

[katybugsmom]

I am so sorry for your loss!!! I know it's not a comfort now, but I feel God gave you that wonderful trip to WDW with your family so that you could carry those wonderful memories with you the rest of your life. You may not want to go back there now, but the memories I hope will be happy ones.
I can't begin to know how you feel. I did lose my dad on September 11(of all dates) almost two years ago. I also have a friend this past fall who lost her husband in Iraq. Their oldest daughter spent the first night after they found out with my family. The mother was in complete shock and everyone felt it was better if the kids stayed with friends or family. Another friend who lives next door to the family and teaches with me helped me keep the kids the next day too. It was awful trying to figure out what to do to keep the kids occupied. My DD9 stayed with us to be with her friend.
I will be happy to lend a "listening computer" anytime you need to talk. I'm only a click away. God bless you and your family during this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with you!

 

[gottalovethem]

I am so sorry for your loss and don't know if this has been posted, but a few things to consider. One is therapy for yourself and how to help your children.

Another is a program called Rainbow Kids -- it helps children, and adults, who have lost someone through death or divorce. There is a grieving process that you all will go through and Rainbow Kids (and the adult program Prism) may really help you and your oldest.

Prayers and hugs to you and your family.

 

[Nancyg56]

I am so sorry for your loss. I don't have the words to express what I would say but know that you and your family are in my thoughts and my prayers.

 

[Tosha]

Offering you hugs. I'm so, SO sorry for your loss and I pray that God gives you and your girls strength to carry on.

I don't know this from experience, but I feel led to tell you it's ok to not be strong. It's ok to let loose and mourn. Let your relatives hold you up during this time. You owe it t yourself to mourn, that way your healing can start.

May the Lord wrap you in his everlasting arms and rock you, his baby, to comfort.

 

[DISNEYFOS]

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

 

[tinkandpan]

I am so very sorry for your loss.... my thoughts are with you.
My friend found herself in a similar situation 5 years ago and found a wonderful YOUNG widows group (she felt odd at the regular widows groups) and was able to gather some strong support from women who had been in her shoes.
BEst wishes for you all.

 

[princessmom29]

First let me say that I cannot begin ot imagine or identify with the pain you are going through. I have a DD4 and cannot imagine what I would do in your situation. That being said, we lost my Uncle in a traqgic accident seven years ago when his son was 7. I think that they best thing we did for that child to help him heal we allow him to talk about his dad and what he was feeling. It was sometimes hard to just listen and let him get it out, but that is what he needed. Please feel free to share here or elswhere whatever you need to to heal. All i can offer at this point is words from church that often help me "May God grant you his peace"

 

[tyandbash]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your daughters in my prayers.

 

[mom2taylorandemily]

I only wish that I had words that would give you some comfort. Only I don't think words would give you any at this time. Lean on God, let him guide you and give you stregnth. Try hard to let God become your best friend and help you through this. Let your parents and his parents help you if they can. You will get through this, and know that you and your family are in our prayers.

 

[Bugsmom73]

Prayers for you and your family.

 

[TSNCS]

I will remember you and your daughters in my prayers, and that God will give you the strength and the peace you need. And also the wisdom to nurture yourself and your girls through this.

 

[pooh4evr]

I am so sorry for you- FWIW my dad died at 28 I was 4 - all I can share right now is that although it will be painful for a long time things will get better and (as a child who has been through it) it will be VERY important for the girls and for you to stay close to his family and lean on them- and always talk about him, share stories so they will know what he was like - I wish so badly everyday I could just hear my dads voice or see a movie of him anything to remember- please do that for your girls- As for you hang on to people who are close to you, your family and his. I know it seeems impossible now but things will get better I send you so many good thoughts and prayers for today and always - God Bless You and your girls!!!

 

[letsgoagainsoon]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 

[jockey]

So sorry for your loss

 

[vbarry]

I will be praying for you and your little family.

 

[GothTink]

I am so, so sorry for your loss...