Life just is total against me!!!

[zurgswife]

OK....I had planned on July 7th to really start over again...the family stress had subsided enough that I could start focusing on myself....

WRONG IDEA

July 3 my dad was admitted to the hospital for heart problems..he had a super major coronary 9 years ago...only survived because he was in the hospital with his cardiologist.....has a pace maker....any how.....enzyme levels are elevated and they are doing an angiogram(sp) on monday and most probably followed by angioplasty....

My step mother is still undergoing Chemo...and this is just physically and mentally draining beyond belief.....

So, I'm headed to NC tonight to be with her during the testing and such....

I'll do my best to restart....on Monday...but my defenses are down....


WISH me luck...

 

[minniecarousel]

well - maybe restarting on Monday is not the time. Try just eating healthy - even if it's not on your "program". Sometimes our energy needs to be directed elsewhere. Hang in there!

 

[glo]

At times like you are going through the best thing to do is focus on yourself and your family. Forget the diet, you can always come back to it when things settle down. For now, just watch what you eat. Try not to overeat, or eat for comfort...drink plenty of water and take a multi viatamin to help you, with energy.


{{{HUGS}}}

don't try to put more preassure on yourself then you need....

 

[Minniespal]

Hope life gets a little easier for you over the next few days??

 

[loisg1]

Oh no, Kim, I'm so sorry to hear all that has been put before you at this time. Please take care of yourself as best you can while you're in NC. Just do the best you can.

Keeping you and your family in prayer,
Lois

 

[jimmytammy]

I am sorry to hear that things just seem to keeping hitting. I will have you and your family in my prayers. Just like others have said, I wouldn't worry about being on a strict diet while dealing with things, just eat as healthy as you can and drink plenty of water. The vitamin is a great idea also if you don't already take one.

 

[Luvinit]

{{{{{{{hugs & *~*~*~*~*~}}}}}}}}} for you and your family..I will keep you all in my prayers

Tracy

 

[zurgswife]

Thanks everybody....I pretty sure dad will be ok...but it's just added stress...

 

[lmhall2000]

((((ZURGS WIFE)))))

Yep, you're in a pickle- but what a wonderful daughter you are to jump in and help when needed! Eating on the road can be tricky- treat yourself to Subway instead of McDonald's- they're pretty fast too! If you can pack some nice walking shoes- you're gonna need some downtime from this stress while you're there- just hit the sidewalk and don't stop until you feel your shins burning....

You will be able to handle the stress much better being well-rested and fed well- so take care of YOURSELF too!! And I'll be sending prayers for healing for both parents. Many hugs- and don't worry- we're all gonna be here when you get back and you can go full steam ahead then!

Tara

 

[Mskanga]

Kim
I'm sorry to hear about your dad, hope everything goes well, I will pray for that.
Good luck and let us know how he does, and don't worry, you can start again when you come back.

 

[padisneylover]

Here's hoping that things turn around for you and your family. As others before me have said, don't worry about the diet now. The important thing is to take care of yourself at this time.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers
Kathe

 

[perfectmatch300]

Prayers & PD to you & your family, Kim. Hope all goes well with your dad.

 

[Fantasia Sam]

Sorry to hear about your dad Kim, I hope all goes well and I'm keeping you all in my thoughts.

As far as the diet is concerned don't stress about it you have enough to worry about. You've proved that you can diet and when the time is right for you, you'll feel comfortable about dieting again. Just concentrate on trying to look after yourself through all this and you must make sure that you DO eat.

{{{{hugs}}}}

 

[RaySharpton]

I am so sorry here about all these stressful things happening to you. You don't need the stress of trying to diet, too.

Take care of yourself. Let your husband and kids help you some.

I wish that I was there to give you a big hug now.

God bless you, best wishes, and encouragemet, RaySharpton (insert smiley face here...lol)