ColoradoBelle1 said:Tho he had once felt Deb and Bill had been his champions in his 'war'... that now they were lumped in with the rest of us, as attacking him.
I IM'd TC back... He declined, as is his right. I'm sorry about that. I invited him to close this thread (page 20) but he said he didn't feel comfortable with that idea.
Heck, we all probably need a little... a few people need a lot of practice.![]()
It isn't enough to SAY you will take the high road....you really have to walk the high walk (highway?).
I never thought I was in a war, those are not my words, those are yours. I never said I thought they were allies, just that they could see the issue. That is likely part of the problem, some do see this as a war.
When she reread her post, she apologized emphatically, it was hearetfelt and sincere. I know she didn't mean to offend, she intended humor. I think she does see, as many do, the secondary and unintended message, which was indeed hurtful. And was a perfect example of what I was trying to get across.
I have no authority to close this thread. Indeed, it has taken on a life of its own.
It's not my intent to try and convince anyone their opinion is right, wrong or invalid. I have accomplished my goal.
Practice makes perfect, right?
Your'e absolutely right, lets take the high road.