Tips for 1st Time Guests:
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Timing is everything
Go during a slower season and enjoy lower price accommodations, as well as fewer crowds. (I wish I took my own advice more often!) If you're going during 4th of July week, Spring break, or Christmas... don't be surprised if it's busy and crowded - expect long waits.
And when you're at the parks, first thing in the morning - hit a couple of your must-do rides immediately... grab a fast pass for one, go to another that's nearby, and return for your fast pass ride. Also, take advantage of extra magic hours if you're staying on property because you can go to certain parks on certain days before the parks open to the public or stay later than the general public can stay.
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Be prepared
Pack various OTC medicines, cleaning wipes, extra empty grocery bags for dirty laundry in your suitcases, ziplock bags for a billion uses, etc.
For each day in the park, check weather reports for temperature - pack a jacket/sweater if it may get chilly by evening, a small towel in a ziplock for dampening to keep yourself cool if it gets too hot, and ALWAYS have a poncho for each family member with you because rain is just a part of FL... afternoon showers are common, even if they are brief.
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Review Disney maps & vacation planning DVD's, website, etc.
Get a feel for what you & your group would like to do... don't worry about trying to do everything in a day or two - not going to happen. Get a feel for where everything is and how to get from one place to another.
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Save money on food
Bring granola bars, cereal, fruit, etc. into your room. Use it for breakfast or for putting in your backpack for snacks (especially if you have young children... a 10 min wait can seem like eternity for a hungry child's parents).
The healthiest option anyway is water, so just drink water when you're out. All the counter service restaurants will give you free ice water. (Or bring drink mixes if you must have some flavor.)
Don't feel like you have to order every individual in your family a full meal when you're in the parks - sometimes you can order just a sandwich/main entree without the sides to save money and unnecessary calories. Double burgers are great because they're only a little more than the cost of a single and can be easily shared for a filling meal. Or share another type of meal!
Consider having ice cream for lunch. WHAT? Come on, who wouldn't love that meal? (Besides low-carbers like myself.) It's cheap, yummy, and bound to excite your family!
When you do go to a table service meal, go at lunch time for cheaper prices and in the late afternoon or late morning for less crowds... Though if you have
Disney Dining Plan, I believe one table service credit is the same either for lunch or dinner, so you might be better off just going at dinner time (sometimes bigger portions).
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Kids have needs
If you go with children, give them a chance to take a break. They're feet can get tired of walking, they may need more frequent bathroom trips (you may want to keep a pull-up on recently potty-trained children), they may need snacks if they're going through a growth spurt, etc. Some children need naps (or they'll get cranky in the middle of dinner time making everyone's lives miserable). Let them take naps in a stroller or take them back to the room mid-day for a nap (that's the busiest & hottest part of the day anyway). Go back to the parks refreshed and enjoy the nighttime shows without kids who are trying to fall asleep while sitting on Daddy's shoulders.
Listen to your children and don't forget Disney was made for the whole family to have fun. Do things they'd like too... perhaps to them it's worth it to wait in line 30 min. to meet Mickey or Cinderella.
I could go on and on, but this is at least a start!