Heya, Mad!
I know all too well how some people have tunnel vision and only see what they want to see...don't let them get you down! If you'll notice, I take "mini-breaks" from this and other vmk forums. I can go for months without posting anything, until tempers cool. Take a "mini-break" and see if things look better after a few weeks.
Either way, I'm sure we will run into each other again on the game.