We had a terrible experience last June at LeCellier. We ate there for lunch with a party of 14. The service was terribly slow and the food portions were small. We had eaten here many times and had raved about eating here to our family who were all eating there for the first time. Needless to say I was so embarassed that I recommended LC to everyone.
I can understand that it takes longer to serve a large party and am very easy going for the most part. However, when you get your drinks and don't see your server for another 40 minutes before he comes back to take your order, that is unacceptable. Then once we finally ordered, it took another 45-60 minutes to get our food. Since we had two 2 year olds with us, their parents ended up leaving with the kids before the food was served because it was too hard on them to sit still any longer and they needed their naps. Plus my 2 DDs and my DD's friend also left because of the wait. So what was a party of 14 ended up being a party of 6. Usually I would object to leaving after ordering. However, I think it's also rude to keep customers waiting that long and didn't blame them at all for not wanting to wait any longer.
Also my BIL ordered a steak (I think it was a filet) and it was so small, he and his wife were laughing at the size of it. Because of the long waits and poor service by our server, we asked to speak to the manager and he finally showed up at the end of our meal. He just apologized and said that they were short on help that day. I can understand that things like this happen and am not an unreasonable person. However, I did see many families come after us, order their food, eat and leave before we even got our food. We also told him that because of our long wait our fast passes were no longer valid because we had spent so much time there for lunch. He said that he would take care of them and issue us new ones, but we never got any. We got tired of waiting (again) and finally left. It wasn't worth it at that point.
We are going back in September this year and I have ADRs there because I thought this was an isolated incident. We have been eating there for many years and always loved this place. Now after reading so many negative reviews, I am going to cancel. Plus my DH just reminded me that he told me last year that he refuses to go back (I didn't tell him I made ADRs for Sept. until just now). I think I am going to try someplace new instead - not sure where at this time.
BTW this is the 2nd restaurant at Epcot that my DH now refuses to go to. Alfredo's used to be another favorite but after 2 years of bad experiences there, he won't go back there either.
I don't think the OP was rude at all. It sounds to me like this restaurant needs new management as this seems to be happening more and more.
Sorry you had also had a bad experience there. Paying customers deserve better than this.