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It was easy for us, since that trip was our 5th in 2 years... and the first trip (anywhere)with our son, who was 5 months old at the time. We used him as an excuse. LOL He is too little for rides...
I asked the girls (4 and 2.85 at the time) if they would like to go to WDW but not do any rides.... The 4 yo freaked... then I added... but how about we have dinner with Cinderella (1900 park Faire) and breakfest with Mickey (Chef Mickeys)? YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY they were all for it!
There was also a lot of... even though this trip is no rides, our next trip will be, and since this is still a vacation, it will be great, becasue vacations are great, rides or no rides.... they bought it, and it was...
Our first plan was to stay at BCV, to spend our days at SAB, but they were booked (also this trip was planned 37 days out) so with the luck of the draw, we scored a two bedroom at VWL. It was our first time staying at that resort, so that helped keep things new and exciting. Plus we got to spend time at Ft Wilderness.... twice we took the boat over there just to ride the ponies... BIG HIT and they want to go and do that every trip now! LOL We also stayed 2 nights at AKL (on cash), another resort we had never been too... lots of exploring to do. Time flies when your having fun!
Also we rode the monorail a lot. Before and after our Charater meals at GF and Cont.... They loved it. And much to my surprise, they were tickled to see the castle, but didnt whine about not going in it. And they were excited for Charlie to ride it... Maddie also piped in all full of herself... Mom.. I thought we were going on any rides.... Little stinker! Monorail counts I guess!
We spent an afternoon walking around the Boardwalk, and the girls both won a lovely purple bear (thanks to a wonderful CM, who gave prizes to second place kids too) A huge highlight for them!
There is sooooooo much to do at WDW, the parks are mearly 4 other things to do.... ya know.
This will be a yearly event for us. We have the points to go to WDW 3 or 4 times a year as a family. One of those trips will be no parks, and the others will be a park every other day or so.... And as the kids get older, we will head to BB or TL, spend the day mini golfing, rent water mice... the list is endless....
Life is too short to go comando, esp with little kids!
Hope this helped ya a bit. I know we really did enjoy that trip. Even with three kids 4 and under. So that says something right there.
Oh... best part... No stroller..... I carried my son in a sling most of the time, so come nap time, both girls were out cold, unlike park days, where they ride in the stoller most of the time and dont get tuckered out! Also, only one mid day melt down, again unlike park days where by noon they are both so over simulated that they combust
So in review (sorry so long)
I would ask them. Tell them the plusses... all day pool time, a Charater meal or two... fun stuff they have never done... and see what they say. Given an either/or I bet they would pick to go, and no rides.... then remind them that next time, rides aplenty!
HTH