Last one to post........... Part 9

[Mom2Ashli]

Is your SIL okay? I mean how bad did he hit her?

 

[trappednabox]

But you said he was never abusive before. It is not something you just start one day.

My brother hasn't. But my dad was. If he was my sil would have told us, she tells us everything

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

I just talked to her, and she said she is still shaken up about it. She just can't see what went wrong. She said he called all night long calling her names, and telling her she's taking his son away from him. He's acting like he didn't do anything wrong. She said as soon as her sis wakes up she's gonna send my nephew to there house, and she's gonna get some rest

is this vics sister?? I DIDN'T KNOW THEY WERE HAVING PROBLEMS

 

[Mom2Ashli]

then take a few days to get control of your feelings.. it is ok to do that!!

I agree with this.

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

Why Don't You And Andi Go Do Something Fun For The Day.. It Might Help You Both To Get Away!!

 

[trappednabox]

Is your SIL okay? I mean how bad did he hit her?

she said she's really sore, that, OMG I still can't believe he would do this to her, but she said he dragged her across the street, and he was trying to pull her to her feet by her hair, and he hit her a few times in her arms and in her head

 

[Mom2Ashli]

My brother hasn't. But my dad was. If he was my sil would have told us, she tells us everything

Maybe something else is going on in his life that made him snap. Is his job okay? How about stress in his life?

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

Where Were The Children..

 

[Mom2Ashli]

she said she's really sore, that, OMG I still can't believe he would do this to her, but she said he dragged her across the street, and he was trying to pull her to her feet by her hair, and he hit her a few times in her arms and in her head

OMG - was he drinking or worse into drugs?

 

[trappednabox]

Why Don't You And Andi Go Do Something Fun For The Day.. It Might Help You Both To Get Away!!

I'm leaving in about 15 min to go to church, and I have to wait for my cousin & the baby to get here. I'm soooo glad Andie was with her cousin last night, and wasn't here. She has no idea what happened

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

I have never lived through this so what I might say may not help.. but this might be a good time for your mom to tell him how it felt when your dad did this to her!!

 

[Mom2Ashli]

I'm leaving in about 15 min to go to church, and I have to wait for my cousin & the baby to get here. I'm soooo glad Andie was with her cousin last night, and wasn't here. She has no idea what happened

 

[trappednabox]

OMG - was he drinking or worse into drugs?

I hope it wasn't worse! We've been thur that with him b4 & I don't think I can handle it again!!

Where Were The Children..

at home with his other grandma THANK GOD!!

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

I'm leaving in about 15 min to go to church, and I have to wait for my cousin & the baby to get here. I'm soooo glad Andie was with her cousin last night, and wasn't here. She has no idea what happened

then when she gets home you need to be strong for her..maybe she shouldn't know!! i know it will be tough for you to pretend all is ok!!! go to chucrch and pray tracy and I will be thinking of you!!!

 

[Mom2Ashli]

I have never lived through this so what I might say may not help.. but this might be a good time for your mom to tell him how it felt when your dad did this to her!!

I have never been thru this either. But I think that is a great idea. What about making him go to an anger management class?

 

[trappednabox]

is this vics sister?? I DIDN'T KNOW THEY WERE HAVING PROBLEMS

Yeah it is, He's my only brother, they've had a few problems but never anything major!!

 

[kelljacques@aol.com]

has your mom spoke to him today?? I think anger classes would be good if he is feeling sorry for what he did and wants to get help!! councling might be good since he has seen this happen to your mom...

 

[Mom2Ashli]

I hope it wasn't worse! We've been thur that with him b4 & I don't think I can handle it again!!

Well maybe sitting in jail will help him think about the things he has done. He needs to realize the things that he does affects everyone.

Give your Mom a hug and tell her it is from your friends.

 

[trappednabox]

then when she gets home you need to be strong for her..maybe she shouldn't know!! i know it will be tough for you to pretend all is ok!!! go to chucrch and pray tracy and I will be thinking of you!!!

I don't think I could ever tell her! He means so much to her, like he did for me. My mom and dad got divorced b4 I was a year old, and my mom divorced Andie's dad when she was very very young. So he's been kind of a dad to both of us

 

[Mom2Ashli]

I will be praying for you and your family.