Lyn5
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Good Ol Gal said:we only dated about 4 1/2 months before we got married. Working on 12 years this Aug.![]()



Good Ol Gal said:we only dated about 4 1/2 months before we got married. Working on 12 years this Aug.![]()
See! Like I said when you know it's right it's right!Good Ol Gal said:we only dated about 4 1/2 months before we got married. Working on 12 years this Aug.![]()
poisoned apple said:i hate that when you have a day when the phones seems to never stop ringing...
you sure do! and I heard my mom tell a friend of hers while we were dating "It is just a fling. they will never last." Guess she was wrongtrappednabox said:See! Like I said when you know it's right it's right!![]()
Just alittleGood Ol Gal said:you sure do! and I heard my mom tell a friend of hers while we were dating "It is just a fling. they will never last." Guess she was wrong![]()
Good Ol Gal said:you sure do! and I heard my mom tell a friend of hers while we were dating "It is just a fling. they will never last." Guess she was wrong![]()
Lyn5 said:
DH just called. He has a chance at a new position where he works and I really don't know what to do. I told him I support him whatever he chose but there are too many pluses and minuses that would affect our family...don't know to doGood Ol Gal said:
Lyn5 said:DH just called. He has a chance at a new position where he works and I really don't know what to do. I told him I support him whatever he chose but there are too many pluses and minuses that would affect our family...don't know to dothanks for listening....I don't want to say anything at work or to may family
Lyn5 said:DH just called. He has a chance at a new position where he works and I really don't know what to do. I told him I support him whatever he chose but there are too many pluses and minuses that would affect our family...don't know to dothanks for listening....I don't want to say anything at work or to may family
Aww LynLyn5 said:DH just called. He has a chance at a new position where he works and I really don't know what to do. I told him I support him whatever he chose but there are too many pluses and minuses that would affect our family...don't know to dothanks for listening....I don't want to say anything at work or to may family
no, they are still talking....but it would probable happen this summer...which would be good...so that we could adjust somewhat before school starts.Mom2Ashli said:He didn't have to give a decision right away did he? You guys can sit down tonight and decision all of those Pros and Cons and decide which way you want him to go.
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Lyn5 said:well, maybe chatting will help get the emotions out...and I would love opinions/ideas. Here are the pros and cons:
Pros:
Right now it seems like it would be much more money than DH is making. I will try not to be too specific (since this is the internet)...but right now he makes less than me...and I am supposed to get a raise soon and he is supposed to get a cost of living increase soon too...so the difference in his pay and mine (with his current job) would be around 17K or more in a couple months. With this new job, his pay would go to being about 13K or more than mine...so that is a HUGE increase for him.
He might be able to work a day or two at home, since this is computer related.
He could still go to school online, like he is doing now.
If things got really hectic with the kids (see cons) he would probable make enough that I could stay home if we needed a parent at home...put we would need to cut back on somethings.
Right now, we are trying to put more away for the kids for school and pay down our house debt, so if we are both working...this extra money would really help.
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Cons:
The other days of the week he would need to work on another island (where the city is)Which would totally affect our life since he picks up/takes the kids to school now. And, next year (for one year only) DS and DD will be at different schools. Plus, he currently takes DS to his activities...which start way early for me to do it. I work in town and so between my commute and parking, I can't be in the area we live in time to do those types of things...it may get hectic.
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He will need to stay overnight more often on the other island. I really dislike being home alone at night and so my Mom comes over. This would be a huge impact to our family...I would need to learn to live with it.
DH feels horrible at the thought of me leaving my job if things got bad. I like my work and the people at work (for the most part) and I may go insane at home. Plus, with all I went through to get where I am, I think he feels sad for me to give it up.
I know!!!! Are you still avaliable as a nanny? j/k ...I think that is one of the hard parts for DH...not being with the kids as muchtrappednabox said:WOW!! Those would be big changes to your everyday life!
Lyn5 said:I know!!!! Are you still avaliable as a nanny? j/k ...I think that is one of the hard parts for DH...not being with the kids as muchand leaving his wife home alone
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