We live near Disney, eat at the resorts often. I love Citricos - and the Enchanted Rose lounge is beautiful and elegant. Both would make for a special evening. Also, ask for a table at Citricos in the area of the restaurant with the windows overlooking the pool and lagoon. The room is circular shaped, and seems less frenetic than the main area with the open air kitchen. I know you suggested two options, but you could also consider Shula's at the Dolphin if you're looking for great steaks, and a more adult atmosphere. They have a very nice lobby bar (Finn's)