Ladies would you

[happygirl]

be mad if your hubby called you Baby Momma, inspired from another post?

In the poll It supposed to be beyond livid not living lol

 

[Rora]

be mad if your hubby called you Baby Momma, inspired from another post?

No if he was talking to people who knew us (knew we were married, we were friends with, etc) and DH was clearly "being funny".

 

[mamacatnv]

Yeppers

 

[RitaE]

Not even close to how pissed off I'd be to find a "vent" about our private sex life on a Disney message board - complete with my disinterest in wearing VS undies.

 

[NaLisa]

No if he was talking to people who knew us (knew we were married, we were friends with, etc) and DH was clearly "being funny".

That's me too. If DH said it in front of some close friend in an obvious attempt at humor (he's warped like that), it wouldn't bother me. He'd never call me that in front of strangers, and I'm certain he doesn't view me that way.

 

[Rora]

That's me too. If DH said it in front of some close friend in an obvious attempt at humor (he's warped like that), it wouldn't bother me. He'd never call me that in front of strangers, and I'm certain he doesn't view me that way.

Exactly!

 

[bdcp]

Yes, but he would NEVER do that. I'm his bride, his love, but not his baby mama. That's so disrespectful. That sounds like something a 15 year old says. Of course, DH would never share what was shared on the other thread, nor does he go around telling anyone private info about us. Just as you'll never read anything from me about personal things about me, DH or our families.

 

[LuvOrlando]

He'd get one chance then he'd be calling me Mrs. somebody else's wife when writing out the checks

In all seriousness I can't imagine it would even come out of his mouth. I suppose if I were to tell him about these threads he'd do it for a laugh but that is as far as it would go. I don't know what's up with the attitude behind the term though. Do people use it because it's everywhere or is it everywhere because people really think in those terms It seems to imply minimal involvement.

The question was directed at me so I answered for me but I won't judge others, different strokes and all that

 

[eliza61]

LOL. I voted No, simply because I'd be on the floor rolling with laughter at my senior citizen, totally clueless and uncool dh trying to use the term "baby mama".

When the movie came out with Tina Fey and Amy Poehler I had to explain the title to him and why it was funny

 

[NMAmy]

Not even close to how pissed off I'd be to find a "vent" about our private sex life on a Disney message board - complete with my disinterest in wearing VS undies.

As to the question, I'd wonder how the heck he'd come up with that expression particularly since he and I've had no children together. It's not an expression that I particularly like.

 

[happygirl]

Does anyone know if you can edited the poll part of the post?

 

[Aisling]

Nah, I wouldn't be mad. People get mad at too many silly things these days.

 

[MoonFaerie]

It wouldn't bother me in the least. If we weren't together anymore & he was using it as an insult, then maybe.

 

[LuvOrlando]

Does anyone know if you can edited the poll part of the post?

I knew you meant livid

 

[MIGrandma]

I voted other because we are not of the generation who says that. We're too old. I don't think it would ever occur to him to use that term. I think it's kind of a silly term myself. Now "baby's mama" is different, but "baby momma?

 

[CurlyGirl]

Not loving BabyMama - very low-rent.

 

[ncmickeyluvr]

No if he was talking to people who knew us (knew we were married, we were friends with, etc) and DH was clearly "being funny".

Exactly! I could even imagine DH saying something like this.....and he would crack himself up in the process.

If he ever tried to seriously say this , it would be me cracking up on the floor. It would sound so ridiculous coming out of his mouth.

 

[Carly_Roach]

It's considered a ghetto term within our circle of friends and is used in a most derogative way so yes, I'd consider it to be a deal-breaker.

I wouldn't date or get involved with someone who'd behave in such a manner or discuss the person they claim to love in such a manner. I'm well aware of my worth and I always knew I could do better than that (and I did!)

 

[lovemygoofy]

I would be beyond pissed if he only referred to me as a baby mama. I also do not want to be called the 'old lady.'

 

[sparks19]

No lol I would not be mad at all. We always throw around zings and jokes about each other. It's just our thing lol. Plus... I am his babies momma so technically it's correct lol. Why would I care? I've definitely heard men call their wives worse. No it wouldn't bother me and it definitely isn't worth starting a fight over. Just a silly nickname.