I absolutely agree that trying to hold a child for 25 min. on your hip is really hard, and so shoulders would be easier. I guess what I am thinking is, if you know you are going to have your kid on your shoulders, then it would be courteous to stand in the back, rather than block others.
I also understand not wanting a young child standing in front of someone you don't know, and being out of your sight. Also, you want to experience it with your child, and that is hard to do when they are not with you. I enjoy seeing my DD face light up when she sees something magical, and I don't want to miss those moments.
It seems that by having people stand rather than sit, they are able to fit more people in, so that is why it is standing. Again, not sure what the answer is. Just be respectful and courteous, and hopefully you are given it in return. I can say that the more I think about it, if someone in front of us has a child on their shoulders, I would feel comfortable kindly asking them to either scooch over or hold them differently.
I am glad we will be doing the Preferred Seating/Dinner, but it almost makes me more invested in our view because we will be spending extra to get it. Thanks for the input from everyone!
Traci