Malibellle,
I think it turned out awesome. We had 100 RSVPs I think 97 showed up. We had black linen on the existing tables with sheer silver over the black on the head table. We had a large table for 8-10 ppl added for parents. We did a cocktail hour w/ hot and cold apps. For dinner we had a carving station with prime rib and the fixings, we had a mashed potato martini bar, red skin potatoes, chix and beef stir fry w/ rice, salad bar, pasta bar, dessert bar and choc fountain. Everyone raved about the food. I loved having a live band. I used Mark Zauss and the Z street band. If you are going to use an outside band (especially z street) book them outside of disney. We saved a lot of money that way. We also had a 4 piece string quartet for ceremony / cocktail hour. If you want PM me your email address and I can send you some pics. Don't have my professionals back yet, but I have a few of ADH. Also, since the tables are small and there are about 32 of them we used the pillars w/ floating candles and rose petals as table decoration. This looked great and was economical BC we used them at the ceremony too. I did not do a seating chart...and it worked out great! Sorry so long....hope this helps !