WOW.. I feel so lazy now. These are just great Lori. Gotta love the prints big enough to cut out and applique. I never seem to have those and thus no appliques. I really need to get out some scraps and practice so I'm not so afraid of it.
I am positive it's ARGH (apply H's liberally)
TJ- if you talk to Heather send her well wishes from us. I hope you get to feeling better too. I felt that way last week but I had a cold, I wasn't taking cold medicine but there just seemed to be layers between me and the rest of the world. Take care of yourself
So I was looking at this book my MIL has about letting go of "baggage" in your life and learning how to correct some of those undesirable characteristics inflicted upon us at a young age...for those of you who don't know I've been learning to deal w/ my perfectionism for the last year or so (since I learned what it was)
ANYWAY, I realized why it takes me forever to complete my sewing projects. Perfectionists are often procrastinators ( I always have been, now I know why!). They fear not doing something up to the standards they set for themselves. This is SO true for me. My MIL is always saying, "well, Tifani, have you ever sewn a zipper before? Oh, No? Then WHY do you think you should be able to do it w/out any help???" Perfectionists also think that if they are smart and talented they should be able to pick up new things easily and quickly, even difficult things and are discouraged when it takes time to learn something new. Perfectionists procrastinate for lots of reasons. One of them is the fear of not finishing to perfection another is it gives them an excuse when it is NOT perfect. If you do something last minute then you can just say "well, I didn't have enough time to do it the RIGHT way or the way I wanted. I joke on here that done is better than perfect but I don't really mean it. I have been trying to get past this and remember that I've only just started sewing right before I found this thread AND I've been teaching myself. I am looking forward to taking some sewing classes at the Adult Education center here. But until then I am going along trying to take my time and learn how to do things right w/out pushing myself to be PERFECT all of the time.
So, I'm still not "whipping" anything up but I am working on stuff. Slowly, reading all of the directions and doing things by the book. That's another issue. My mom is a make your own rules kinda sewer but she has an eye that I don't have she is an artist and can visualize things where I have to have a plan for everything-even if I make the plan myself I have to be able to see it on paper. So I'm keeping my limitations in perspective and trudging on.
Sorry for the ramble, I just was looking at my basket of STUFF. I have no less than 5 projects all cut and ready to be sewn yet, no sewing. Then it dawned on me

THIS is my perfectionism stealing time from me again. Perfectionism is a thief it promises the world but really it just takes time away from us, time wasted worrying that we are not perfect, planning to be perfect and trying to keep up w/ the standards our perfectionism sets.
oops rambling again, I'd better step away from the keyboard.
...t.