Interesting read! We visited the MK (for one day) the first time last year, & also visited DL (no DCA) in May (Park Vue) for two days.
I
loved Disneyland. Shockingly, my husband prefered WDW.
Totally agree that the people are more laid back, nicer, less militant. As someone who is nervous around people that was barely an issue there. People were overall extrordinarily kind, and I loved how characters just walked around and engaged with visitors. I actually got to
sit and experience the ambience on main street & the hub-in multuple places. I
heard and saw street entertainment- something I anticipated at WDW but never actually happened. You could hear people talking in the upperstories of main street. I even saw the MSEP! (It was supposed to show on our visit to WDW but they for some reason had no dates.)
I prefered the DL fastpass, but it would never work at WDW. I also only ever saw one (unscheduled) ride down, whereas many rides were down for most of our rainy WDW visit. The day I arrived at opening I walked on most rides-wuth the exception of Peter Pan. That line was always a crowded miserable hour so I sadly only did it once. I didn't get to try as much food as you- but I did have my first churro, my first dolewhip, and breakfast mickey waffle at Carnation Cafe- a reservation I made late the night before even!
There were so many more rides I liked, too! The history was so cool, and the CM's were great. I am basically more eager to return to DL then I am for our planned trip to WDW in December! Alas, the over nine hours of transit dissuades me.
Disneyland was everything I had hoped the Magic Kingdom would be, but a thousand times cooler. The purple trees! The flowers! The locals! Still dizzy on pixie dust.
Edit to add: Disney Springs & the alcohol available on WDW property were much better, but I think the best drinks in California are at DCA. Regardless, west coast Trader Sam's was a letdown to me.