We've camped at the Fort on an annual basis for the past few years. Yes, we have had some things that have not gone our way at check-in. Usually once we are at our site, everything is good.
We arrived a couple of years on a Saturday and requested the 1500 loop, but were put on the 2000 loop ... we then moved the second day (what a pain!). We have since made the adjustment to arriving on Sunday in order to get the 1500 loop as we realized that the local/weekend crowd were the ones taking the spots. Changing our arrival day has really helped to get our desired loop upon arrival.
I also don't like it that the front desk seems unaware when spots are "clean". You would think there would be a more efficient way for the cleaning crew to contact the front desk as soon as cleaning was done.
I also get a bit peeved about individuals/fellow campers not following the rules or being considerate of others, but try to tell myself I'm on vacation ... no stress, be happy. Yes, I'll report the infractions, but Disney doesn't always enforce (e.g. only one vehicle on site, quiet hours, no campfires, etc). Some years they have been good about enforcement and other years not. Locals, don't flame me - but it does "appear" that the culprits are local/Florida folks who camp at the Fort frequently ... Multiple cars on site, multiple friends/family staying (even sleeping in their cars), kids running wild and screaming beginning at 10:00 pm, etc. Fortunately, this has not happened every year -- thank goodness!
At any rate, we don't just go there to camp - if we did we could find other places that are less $$ -- we go for the atmosphere, the fact that there is always something to do without getting the car out and battling the traffic. I love the ferry boats and the fact I can ride the bus and leave the driving to someone else. I don't mind the standard pool - I'll go to one of the water parks if I need a slide/lazy river.
Most of our stress at the Fort deals with check-in and getting the "right" spot for our two-week stay ... once we're set up, though, things run pretty smooth.