morethananyonex
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Man, that cracked me right up!
I have this conversation with DH every time we go to the parks.
So here's the deal. You smoke. Maybe you have for years. You love it. You crave it. You have to have it. I get that, I really do. I feel that way about our annual Disney trip!
What you don't know is that... truthfully and honestly... your smoke is incredibly offensive (and I'm not trying to be insulting) and almost painful to those around you who are not accustomed to it.
I'm not allergic. I don't have asthma. I have no medical condition that makes cigarette smoke physically untolerable to me. That said, however, it smells bad (you know how you feel when you travel through an area recently sprayed by a skunk? Truthfully, it is that bad to those non-smokers around you).
My lungs burn, and I find it hard to breathe. Have you ever had a really bad cough that burns your lungs and makes you gasp for breath. That's how it feels to me.
If you knew you were actually hurting those around you, would it be critical to smoke in a lineup of people, including small children? Could you step away, have your cigarette and then join others in line?
I recognize that smokers are limited in terms of where they can or cannot smoke, and I suspect that is because when we relied on common sense and courtesy, people smoked wherever they wanted, with little regard for others. So it had to be prescribed.
Waiting in lineups, walking through the parks, or in general just sharing space with others requires some social graces. I would not let my children belch, pick their noses or pass gas loudly in line with you because it is just plain rude. I don't clip my toenails or floss my teeth while waiting in lineups under the same principal.
We are all adults. I don't need signs telling me not to do these things. I'm sure you don't either. But when it comes to smoking, there seems to be different rules, and strangely enough, they have been created by smokers. That is just plain unneighbourly, unthoughtful and quite frankly, unnecessary.
Best post of the thread.
I'd like to think that in arguing each side's view points, people have exaggerated how they'd act in the situation. I'd hope a smoker would have the common sense and courtesy to not light up outside a designated area (regardless of any "loophole" that allows them to smoke in a crowded area outside a park), and likewise I'd hope a non-smoker would have the common sense to stay away from the smoking areas and to ignore the people in them (if that's what they need to do to stay calm).
That's all that it comes down to, common sense. There's loads of stupid, rude and inconsiderate things people can legally do but shouldn't do. Smoking in a line up outside a designated area, for example, is just one.
I'm aware that likely the majority of smokers are much more polite about smoking then some of the respondents in here, but the fact that some people would throw common courtesy out the window simply because they're legally allowed to is ridiculous.
Second hand smoke can harm people, therefore, keep it to the designated areas where people can choose to stay away from it. If they go to the area, that's their own fault.