I'm sorry your vacation started out on such a bumpy road, but glad it worked out in the end.
For what it's worth, I appreciate you posting your experience and as a result, have made sure we now have two preferences noted on our two upcoming
DVC reservations...non-smoking and now non-handicap. We also will be traveling with small children and you've hopefully saved us from experiencing similar issues.
I also think you have a perfect right to feel annoyed by your experiences. WDW is my favorite place on earth, why we purchased DVC, and normally why we're very easy to please while we're there. If we've got a room and it's clean, heck, that's pretty much all we need so let the magic begin!
I undestand the loyalty and emotion that Disney evokes, particularly on Disney message boards. We probably wouldn't be posting here if we didn't all share a common Disney passion.
However, just as I don't go looking for issues just because it's Disney, I don't think people should be expected to overlook issues just because it's Disney either.
In fact, I tend to think as DVC members, we would want even more to protect the image of quality and attention to detail that Disney has painstakingly crafted, and we'd want to see DVC continue to grow and prosper as that benefits all of us. Not to mention wanting to protect the money that we're all obligated to spend throughout at least the next 36 years. I know that it won't give me any warm Disney fuzzies in 15 years if DVC resorts are being poorly maintained or CM's turn a blind eye to guest's needs, just because it's Disney.
If I walked into a Hyatt hotel as a paying guest, and was given a room, despite Hyatt having all of the pertinent guests' information and ages, that was
clearly and badly suited to our needs as well as having obvious maitenence issues, lost a whole day of vacation trying to deal with it, then was treated badly on top of that, and in some cases be told I would have to pay to change rooms, I would be upset too.
If moving people out of handicap rooms is causing Disney problems, why on earth aren't they telling people at check-in that the room is HC to avoid, or minimize, these issues?
I'm all for guests taking responsibility, educating themselves, and acting respectfully, but Disney, or any service provider, has to share equally in that responsibility.