i wonder if kate (and tlc and whomever else is in her corner) did'nt take a page from debbie reynolds and her p.r. machine in handling this whole situation.
when eddie fisher hooked up with elizabeth taylor the whole world was treated to debbie reynolds being portrayed as the poor, betrayed wife-left at home to support the children while eddie and liz lived a wild life. eddie fisher was drug through the mud to the extent it pretty much ruined his career.
decades later it was revealed that fisher and reynolds had been living a sham marriage for a LONG time, and that it was only by virtue of an unplanned additional child AND pressure (including financial) from their studios that wanted to continue cashing in on their 'perfect all american couple/family' schtick that they had carried on the charade as long as they did. both had outside the marriage relationships but when fisher's with liz taylor could'nt escape the media finding out the studios decided to cut their losses and salvage what they could-so they opted to go with debbie reynolds and make her look the absolute innocent party.
now eddie fisher was no winner, and jon's got his issues-but i don't think it would be far fetched at all to believe it is as jon has said from day one, that the marriage was essentialy over but kate and tlc wanted to continue marketing it and the family so it continued for a period of time-jon might have even agreed to it, but when he got caught bar hopping and hanging out with women other than his wife tlc decided to try and salvage the franchise by bolstering kate's image and completly trashing jon's (though he does help them quite a bit). the timing of the divorce, the people article (obviously done ahead of kate's supposed decision to file but held for release), the softening of kate's image and more episodes that flatter her in the 'mother/protector' role-it's just too scripted.