John and Teresa Kerry

[Kendra17]

I really just wanted to know what everyone thought about Kerry's response to that last question when he was given the opportunity to discuss his thoughts and feelings about Teresa.

First, let me just say that Bush's comments wowed me. They were so heartfelt and then, as the camera focused on his family, it was such a pleasure to see his family's smiling faces beaming up at ole W.

But, Kerry's response seemed, to me, to be horrible. He talked about his mother first and then made the self-deprecating joke (which was a positive!) and then he seemed to rack his brain searching for something positive to say. And, when the camera focused on his wife, she wasn't smiling at all at him. . . imo, she wasn't too happy with his answer.

So, what did all of you think?

 

[DawnCt1]

I learned from that debate that Kerry doesn't trust Italian Americans (the Tony Soprano comment). That it's great to be a gigalo and that his mother had to remind him on his death bed not to lie anymore. (Integrity, integrity, integrity).

 

[wvjules]

I'm thinking I really don't care about this at all. There are bigger issues to worry about.

 

[Nancy]

I think Teresa probably had an earful for him off stage...I'm sure she voiced her opinions! She really didn't look too happy with him did she?

 

[Kendra17]

Originally posted by wvjules
I'm thinking I really don't care about this at all. There are bigger issues to worry about.

Okay. Go worry about them, then! Thanks for stopping by!

 

[ripleysmom]

 

[palmtreegirl]

I thought it was refreshing to hear an answer as heartfelt as the President's and I was surprised and disappointed that Kerry didn't choose to do the same.

 

[Kendra17]

Originally posted by Nancy
I think Teresa probably had an earful for him off stage...I'm sure she voiced her opinions! She really didn't look too happy with him did she?

No, she didn't; I agree. You know, when both candidates speak, I tend to analyze every thing they say. . .how is that going to sound? I would have said this instead, or wow, great answer. Obviously I know I am biased during my analyzing (and no scowling at my house!)!

But, it did look like she was scrutinizing him, wondering when he'd get to the undying love part, when he'd profess his adoration towards her, etc.

 

[darkcircles]

Hmmm. Didn't the President also say this?

"I've been to war. I've raised twins. If I had a choice, I'd rather go to war."
Houston Chronicle, January 2002

What does that say about family values?

 

[WDSearcher]

Not every couple who loves each other does the whole mushy, "undying love" thing. And men, especially, can find it hard to wax poetic about their wives or partners, particularly in a very public, very scrutinized arena. Some men aren't big ones for public displays of affection, even if they're running for office. My dad always found it incredibly difficult to toast my mom on their anniversary -- couldn't figure out what to say or how to say it. He hated talking about their "partnership" and "life together" because he felt that was too personal to talk about with all those other people sitting there. But I never doubted his love for my mom, and she never doubted it either.

Pres Bush has always been the type of man who could go on and on about his love for his family. Kerry, not so much. Doesn't mean he doesn't love them or that he's any worse of a man for it.

 

[Kendra17]

Originally posted by darkcircles
Hmmm. Didn't the President also say this?

"I've been to war. I've raised twins. If I had a choice, I'd rather go to war."
Houston Chronicle, January 2002

What does that say about family values?

this is a statement meant to deflect the question I posed. An obvious joke for parents with a sense of humor.

 

[darkcircles]

Why is there always an "if he said that" everytime he says something goofy?

My point is that it is simple for anyone to gush when the time is right. It doesn't necessarily mean it is true.

 

[tonyswife]

man oh man..

I thought they both anwsered the question well...from the heart. I see absolutely nothing wrong with Kerry saying that his mother was also a strong woman.

 

[Disney Doll]

I probably wil be voting for Bush, but I htought both men's comments were fine.

 

[Kendra17]

Originally posted by darkcircles
Why is there always an "if he said that" everytime he says something goofy?

My point is that it is simple for anyone to gush when the time is right. It doesn't necessarily mean it is true.

Sorry-- I edited it. Because i didn't know about the statement you quoted. But, I don't believe you are making it up.

 

[disney4us2002]

I chalked it up to different types of people. While my dh would not mention his mother (ha ha, big issues there), he wouldn't fall all over himself gushing about me either. Some people are more vocal about their feelings, like George and Laura, and it obviously works for them. How long have the Kerry's been married? It just seems a different set of circumstances. They were both married before and raised families. Perhaps theirs is a practical marriage with shared interests and feelings grew from that rather than the whole "love at first site, can't live without..." type.

 

[Aristocath]

Kendra, you seem to be an avid reader so this may interest you. Last Sunday's New York Times had a very interesting article on John Kerry. It made reference to the fact that although they are very social people, the Kerrys like to keep their life together private. It may give you a little more insight into the man and his answer, not just what you see in a 2 minute or less response. I'm sorry I don't have a link for you, I just get the paper at my house.

Cathy

 

[mikeymars]

What a fun, "loving" couple...

 

[minniepumpernickel]

Kendra,
In some ways you don't seem to fit the profile of the typical Bush supporter. You are not Christian and your sister believed in bisexuality. I'm just having a hard time follower why you are such a die-hard Bush supporter? I'm just curious, I'll check back Mon.!

 

[Lisa F]

Am I the only one who finds it ironic that a thread about which candidate shows "better" emotion toward his wife was started by someone who, by her own admission in her tag, is married to a man who is afraid to admit on a public BB that he is married to her?