My friends and I were talking about this show the other day.
We also had a conversation regarding what if we were on the show? We both agreed that neither of us would care about the money one way or another, but would dump the guy in a heartbeat after the revelation because of the deceit and attempt to humilate us on national television.
Which THEN spawned the thought that I feel really sorry for the woman who is going to be the one he picks (assuming it has a bachelor like feel to it) because if she dumps him (as, IMO, she SHOULD) everyone will assume its because of the money rather than the trust issue. How could you possibly expect to build a true relationship when the entire framework has been a complete lie? IMO, the show is designed to do no more than characterize all women as gold-diggers, and to massively humilate one woman in particular.
The only way the show could redeem itself even slightly--and it would be very slightly--is if they chose to reveal the guy's financial status through yet another lie.....as in, having him lose his millions in the stock market so now he's dirt poor. At least that way the woman will have the option of making a more candid choice......at the time at which she'd need to decide to stay or go, the ONLY thing that has changed is the money. Of course, if she decides to stay and THEN they tell her he was dirt poor all along, that's the point at which she should dump him for being such a weinerhead and agreeing to do the show in the first place.
I don't know what it is about this show that disturbs me so much. Even though I never watched it, I could 'get' and accept the premise of The Bachelor, even though I found it slightly icky.....but this show just seems to scrape the bottom of the barrel. It seems like its SOLE purpose is to totally humilate someone, not have them be humilated through there own stupidity (as often happens on reality shows).
I guess what truly disturbs me about it is the fact that I still feel compelled to watch. I'm still trying to figure out what that says about me. Guess I like train wrecks as much as the next guy, who knows?
